Do men not understand that finding a woman who needs you will get you hurt in the end?

[Anonymous]

Men should find a woman who genuinely wants them not just needs them. These men are going to get the most narcissistic, sociopathic, psychopathic, and whatever else there is type of women out there. Women who are going to use him to her what they want. To get a free ride in life. To get effort put into her that she will never give in return.

When someone better comes along she will dump you and in the meantime she will cheat with more people then you could count.

It makes no sense why men want women who NEED them not want them. It’s going to end in disaster more times then not.

[virtualwasp]

The only thing you should want from someone is time. No one should take advantage.

[Anonymous]

[Asker]

Yes, and I’ve called men out for their behavior too that repulses decent women they wonder why the only women they get is trash.

[Asker]

But I will say there is women who like to bash men because the type of men who want them are the type of men you mentioned above.

People of both sexes have unrealistic expectations for the opposite sex. Having standards is one thing but if you’re not going to hold yourself to the same standards. Nobody (of self respect) who meets those standards will want someone like that.

Unfortunately, a lot of men who work good jobs. Make good providers etc are the ones who end up hurt because they get women who use them.

Those women are as equal if not worse trash then men as you described.

Thanks for your answer

[Asker]

Another unfortunate thing is sometimes good people end up with horrible people because they feel sorry.

A woman who is with a man as you mentioned above. Will prey on her love and sympathy to use her. I’ve seen it happen both ways so don’t get me wrong.

There is trash in both sexes.

[Asker]

I knew a dude who literally sat on his ass all day never was able to hold down a job. Who played video games and smoked pot while his wife worked 2-3 jobs to support their kid.

I felt sorry for her she was a sweet lady and was attractive. But she bought into all his sympathy playing I don’t know what ever happened to them. But I remember feeling sorry for her and their kid. She did pretty much everything.

I hate seeing people taken advantage of. I have known men deployed while their wives are banging other dudes. Never happy with anything. They sit on their ass all day when their husband comes home they start making them do a bunch of work around the house. Just absolute trash it makes zero sense why they would be with them