That's all she knows. After doing a lot of digging, I found out she has been lying about her name and how she looks. I am 100% confident in this, because I've found multiple profiles on other sites with info/pictures matching each other. (about 75% of the stuff she's told me is true about her life). Where she goes to school and lives and home life seems 80% accurate, but there's been some big things she's lied about going on a year now.
I normally would not go this far, and hope to not be thought of as a stalker; but when your life is emotional hell and you have doubts, you search for the truth.
Bottom line is that honestly, I am not attracted to the person I see now at all. The last problem, is that she is planning on coming to see me in a few weeks. I am asking advise on how to tell her I know about her lies without destroying her life?
Maybe it's mean, but I kindof want to tell her closest girl-friend (also found her profile), so she has someone who knows the truth to help her through this 'break-up', as well as almost a 2nd conscious, to help her from lying again to people. -I have websites, pictures, and profiles all proving she's been lying. I live 3 hours away from her and could drive up to see her in a few days, but it is apparently her birthday and will be out with her friends drinking most of the time. Any genuine advice, please respond quickly as I don't know what to do next.
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