Can you deal with it? She started off the relationship with a lie. There is so much she has not told you. Obviously she has some growing up to do. If she told you the truth at the time would you have forgotten about the age difference? If it were me I would sit her down and tell her that I really don't know who she is and advise her not to build a relationship on a foundation of lies. I would leave. Now, can you put that past you? Would you tell someone else to leave her or stay?
Bottom line to me is that the two of you are at different stages in your lives and it will be an issue for more than a year or two.
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DITCH HER!
She's a lying ho
For me, lying about her age is the number-one no-no!
And in the future if you go out with anyone else,
ASK FOR ID!
You could also "test" her buy taking her to 18+ (or 21+ when you reach that age) venues
What state are you in? This is also important
In my state, you would be OK because she's less than four years younger than you.
I think youu should forgive her. When a girl meets a guy they really like they do anything they can to try and impress them. She probably thought that you wouldn't date her because of the age gap. Tell her you love her even tho she lied and even tho she is younger than you (If youu still do, that is) but make sure she knows that youu dnt want her lying to you again or your relationship won't work. I hope this helps xx
Leave her alone, she's a child. If she lied to you about something as simple as her real age then what makes you think she can be trusted? I mean seriously let her go, it's not even worth doing time for! I'm sure there are more than enough LEGAL girls in your area to keep you company.
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