What's it mean if a stripper is looking at my crotch, another being more open about her personal life?

[PapaZadza]

I been frequenting a strip club since May but September-October two dancers have been rushing me to hug me once they finish changing, I barely tip or buy dances, last time I went I bought a dance and I noticed she was looking at my crotch just fixed on it rubbing on it, and slamming gently and if faced away she would look back to stare or look directly into my eyes, I wasn't hard either, other dancer started telling me to use both arms when I hug her cause I typically use one arm cause I ain't a hugger, then we ended up talkin bout how things have been for her, and she randomly told me she moved into a two bedroom apartment, but I was confused cause she was way more open about her personal life which the last time she talked about her personal life was I think july-august

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I barely even spend money at the strip club, only gotten 5 dances in 9 months, tipped 60$ in 9 months, when I try to tip them they started declining the money

[Orion84]

They want your money. Period.

They know you haven't spent much, but you keep coming back, so they think they can convince you to spend more, by making you think they like you. Phase one is already complete, based on the fact that you're here asking about it.

It's a job for them, and they are in it for the money. Their goal is to get you to spend it on them. Bonus points if they can get you to think about them, because they don't want you giving money to other girls.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It means they have systems to attract men and keep them coming back to pay them for dances and you’re falling for it

[PapaZadza]

Thing is if I try to tip the two they decline the money

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe your tips are shit

[Anonymous]

Hmmmmmm
Maybe she wants your money maybe? Maybe?

[Anonymous]

Christ, men are so easily played. Suckers.

[PapaZadza]

Ya probably didn't read the whole thing lol, I've bought 5 dances total in the span of 9 months, tipped 60$ total, 1 dance wasn't worth the money

[Anonymous]

It's funny but also sad how gullible some men are.

[In_Trance]

It means they want your money