If men are more visual, why are women pickier about men's apperance?

[Anonymous]

[abc3643]

Because they are evolved to be more discriminating in mate choice. We are not; we'll fuck anything.

The reason for this has to do with the function of each sex in reproduction.

A male can make sperm all his life and can make literally 1000s of babies over his lifetime. Females cannot. A male gets a female pregnant; fine, his job is over, time to move on to the next one; after all, biologically, males don't need to stick around. A female gets pregnant, she's got to spend the next 9 months making the baby and then spend the next 20-or-so years raising it. She might possibly make as much as 30 babies over her lifetime.

In short, sperm is cheap. Ova are very expensive.

When you look at the big picture from a genetics and evolutionary perspective, males are responsible for genetic diversity because one male can spread his genes over 100s of females. Females, though, hold the real power. THEY are "the architects of the human species". We, as a species, are exactly what thousands of generations of females have sculpted us to be by their discriminating when choosing who to mate with.

[msmissydc]

Men are only more visual when it comes to sexual attraction. In dating preferances its about equal, as multiple studies have shown. (e. g. Fugère, M. A. (2015). The social psychology of attraction and romantic relationships. Psychology Today)
Its not true though, that women are more picky.

[Asker]

Women are picky but there's nothing wrong with that. Women have every right to be

[msmissydc]

Picky is fine. Its called preference I agree. But statistically there is no difference between the gender about appearance.

[Asker]

Women are pickier due to biological reasons. Like i told the other woman, in general woman want to ensure the best genes for their chidlren while men want to spread their genes. It's natural selection

[msmissydc]

No, thats not the case Read the article.

[Asker]

More women than men have reproduced in their lifetime. You have more female ancestors than males

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

They’re not, maybe you’re just ugly inside and out

[Asker]

The just world fallacy

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Or just you being a man and not realizing anything

[Asker]

What does that even mean

[Anonymous]

That’s only your opinion, not a fact.

[Asker]

Its a fact

[Opinion Owner]

Says who? What valid source?

[Asker]

Women are biologically pickier for fertility reasons. Women want to ensure the best genes for their children and men want to spread their genes

[Opinion Owner]

So no source, just trust me bro and vibes.

[Opinion Owner]

At least someone came with an actual source. You’re just rambling on based off your personal feelings. It’s giving single man blaming women for not finding you attractive.

[Asker]

Go look it up. Im not sending a link

[Asker]

You have more female ancestors than males ancestors

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t have a link because it doesn’t exist. Why are you so hard headed? You just want to argue with women at this point.

[Asker]

Yup you're right. You got me

[Opinion Owner]

And you had the nerve to say sometimes you act like this. No, this is who you are and no woman wants that. How the hell can you be on one post saying you want a woman then be making posts like this dow talking and shitting on them?

[Asker]

You got me. I have no come back for that one

[Anonymous]

Women like their men to be well groomed.