Girls’ when a guy checks you out , Do you find it creepy or do you enjoy it? Be Honest?

[Finchie40]

Me personally smiles or laughs when a girl checks me out , I don’t consider it creepy whatsoever , whether I am attracted to her or not , but it seems most girls’ only like it , if she finds the guy attractive, but if he isn’t attractive , she is creeped out? So how do you feel when being checked out?

[Crimsyjo]

Haha you laughing could make me feel insecure and uncomfortable lol. A smile is always good tho.

But yeah I don't like it if I'm not attracted to the guy. I mean... I won't be mean or anything. But I'm not gonna smile or give a sign that could be misinterpreted as interest back.

I think there is a little dance here and because our roles are different that's why we react different.

If one person checks other out the process is to have it reciprocated. No reciprocation means move on! Quickly. But a smile back... ? No matter if it's guy responding to a girl checking him out or other way round a gal still waits for guy to make a move next once mutual attraction is confirmed. So if he doesn't she moves on. So for a guy whether he's attracted to gal or just indicating appreciation its harmless as he still holds the ultimate power card of next move. But for a woman... if she smiles to show appreciation rather than attraction... well now the guy is likely gonna make a move and that puts us in the awkward position of having to say sorry, not interested...

That's my view anyways...

[littlekat]

I like it even when I m not attracted to the guy but not for too long. when I don't encourage it he should stop or he will start giving me predator vibes and creep me out.

If I m attracted to the guy I ll return the favour by checking him out too and see where it goes from there

[RavVid]

Despite what they might say, they undoubtedly do like if you look at them right. Sometimes they even put on little shows for you.

I am also quite sure that a lot of their thought goes along the line "Oh. Another guy that likes tits. What a surprise".

It all depends on what is in your mind. If it is "OMG. I'd love to feel those tits" you'll get a stony face. On the other hand if "She's special" is in front of mind you'll get a pleased smile. It is not as if, once they have walked past you, they don't use shop window to check if you are still looking.

If you make them feel they are a thing of beauty they lap it up. One girl walked up to my cafe table and stooped so I could appreciate her cleavage all the better. She was happy I validated her push up bra purchase.

It's called pervee participation.

There is a technique guys!

[Pet68]

I've actually been caught a few times checking women out, and unless I seriously misread their reaction, they actually seemed to be flattered.

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

To be honest I think it's both... You can't predict a guy's intentions... But you should be careful especially if it's someone you don't know are have known only recently.

[Apple1996]

It's very creepy but I've learned to block it out and not notice when a guy is checking me out because it's too traumatic for me to have to think about

[sage2021]

I just tell him that if he's going to undress me with his eyes, to please fold my clothes because I always do.🙂

[CindyRuns]

I enjoy it some, as long as the guy doesn't stare or get creepy !!!

[chrissykerdock]

it happens for most women when you wear a minidress in public

[Ferngully2000]

If I like him then I like it, otherwise I’m indifferent.

[NathanDavis]

it's a very different energy...

a man checking a woman out... and a woman checking a man out... completely different experiences, lol

[mmhannah]

Sometimes I like it, just so they look but don't stare. I don't wear bras so it happens

[chocolatetwopointo]

i find it creepy since im a minor

[KatieK92]

Depends on the person and situation

[CupOfCoffee1991]

At times especially if it long time.