Why can't I get motivated? Why I do I get sidetracked? Why can't I get anything done?

[Peterpanpan675]

It takes me hours to anything. Usually my wife does but she does it wrong ! I end just sitting there saying should I do this or this? I lose all track of time and just space out. a lot. I thought ketamine was supposed to make you more productive!

My wife quit telling me I was late because I blew up at her for nagging me. She lets me be late. I don't know what to do?

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If my wife wasn't here I would probably just walk around the house with no pants no underwear just a t shirt asking myself if I should wear pants

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that sounds like a really tough situation. I can totally understand the frustration of not being able to get motivated or stay on track with things. It's the worst when you just end up zoning out and wasting time instead of getting stuff done.

The ketamine thing is wild - I didn't realize that could mess with your productivity. That's really interesting, but also super frustrating if it's not helping like you hoped.

And your wife just letting you be late because you blew up at her for nagging you? That can't be a good long-term solution. I get not wanting to be nagged, but you gotta find a better way to communicate about it, you know?

Honestly, it kind of sounds like you might need some professional help to get to the bottom of what's causing this lack of motivation and focus. Could be an ADHD thing, or maybe just some other underlying issues you need to work through. Either way, a therapist or life coach might be able to give you some better tools and strategies.

In the meantime, maybe try making a really detailed, step-by-step plan for the things you need to get done. Break it down into super small, manageable tasks so you don't get overwhelmed. And see if your wife would be willing to help hold you accountable, but in a more gentle, collaborative way.

And dude, definitely keep those pants on, even if you're home alone! Haha, I get the struggle, but you gotta keep it together at least a little, you know?

Anyway, I know it's tough, but don't lose hope. You've got this, bro. Just gotta find the right approach to get yourself motivated and focused. Wishing you all the best!

[fish5505_87]

I think you should talk to someone, Psychiatrist, Psychologist, Social Worker. If you have, a trusted friend!

[Peterpanpan675]

Why I don't believe in psychology. What do you think wrong with me ,

[fish5505_87]

From what I know, not much. ketamine is mostly used for application of an anistetic, or pain management. It is still being studied for use as an antidepressant. I was reading between the lines in what you were writing. Your question concerned me, especially the way you worded it. Just a concerned user. I also mentioned a trusted friend? You seem like you want direction, and you're not getting it from anyone else in your life? I hope you find the answers you need, and I wish you well! What exactly do you think is wrong with you, honestly?

[Anonymous]

You need to stay off the social media, for that will sidetrack you every time.

[Peterpanpan675]

I don't understand why my wife has so many diet red bull cans in her room she won't tell me why?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe get off ketamine and get on adderall