Ladies, which of these is your ideal endgame?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Married, with kids, being the breadwinner for a stay-at-home spouse

Married, with kids, being a stay-at-home mom to a breadwinner spouse

Married, with kids, both working

Married, no kids, living and working together

Not married, with kids, living and working together

Not married, no kids, living and working together

Single and focused on career and/or being a single mom

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[Iquestioneverything]

Currently married with kids and I am the breadwinner my spouse stays home to help them. He had an injury and cannot work at his past job so he still gets disability pay from that so it’s like two incomes.

[Apple1996]

I'm already married, with kids and stay at home mom. Only thing that'll be better in the future is when my husband retires and we can be stay at home parents together

[dustybiker2]

Life is what happens when a person is busy making plans. Every day is precious. This might only truly be understood by those with/have had serious injury or illness or who have lost someone or something they adore far too soon.

[petitedollbabee]

Not married with kids & both working. Currently im studying/working while my spouse is a stay at home dad for our 10 month old baby.

[petitedollbabee]

Partner* not spouse

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

And you want it to be that way for the rest of your life?

[petitedollbabee]

I’d like for both of us to work once our child/children are old enough to be in school. That seems ideal in my mind. But until then, I will be the breadwinner so that my partner can be home.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

All of that without the commitment of marriage?

[petitedollbabee]

Yes, I can have a long term & committed relationship without marriage, and I would prefer that. I don’t see any positive difference that being married would make to my relationship. And being married doesn’t = loyalty. Divorce rates are high and many married people cheat. It just means a very expensive break up.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Most people prefer it because it guarantees that their estate management goes to their spouse upon their death, as well has having someone advocate for you in the hospital if you’re not able to do so yourself, ie coma

[Iquestioneverything]

@petitedollbabee My husband got injured on the job and is now on disability. He stays home while I work, but he gets disability income. Now if this had happened before we got married, getting married he would lose disability. We would have ended up living together but never getting married. Some people can’t understand why we are ok with that, but if you love someone you do what you must to be together. Even if it’s seen as unconventional

[I-have-answers]

I mean, I wouldn't mind being married, but I don't need it to have someone stay with me. Same with kids, if a man doesn't want to be in the photo then ok, the kids are better off not dealing with someone walking in and out. Kids need consistency.

[MemeSupreme]

i just wanna be content like happy

i want peace lol

[WhitneySnow]

Married no kids living and working together. Though I’m not nearly ready for marriage yet and I might change my mind about kids when I get older.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't care for details... he and me - it's the most important :D

[Nikki1989]

I have no end-game, but I am more than happy to be happily married while I have a career while my husband also has a career.

[Adelinereilly2121]

Married , with kids, both working coz I have dreams too. My career isn't all about money. It's more than that.

[sophie123469]

Married with kids and being a stay at home mom would be nice but isn’t really realistic in this economy.

[Zoe04]

Married, no human kids living together. My partner she live with me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Married with kids both working 🥰

[Neverfail99]

Married with no kids and both working

[chocolatetwopointo]

single and focused on career

[Eempriyanka]

Live upto my heart's content

[jazzy34]

Option 2.

[Alexa6]

Whatever happens happens.