Advice on friendship?

[Anonymous]

So I started getting drinks with a co worker. I asked her first and she agreed as long as I remembered she was married. I respected that and I have no intentions of crossing the line.
Just a few things have happened that I’ve taken note of like she has completely fill me in on the issues she has with husband and has admitted that she has no intentions of telling him that we hang out after work sometimes. I don't know just the vibe I get when we hangout occasionally feels different than two friends getting a drink.

[SueShe]

Your one and only action here is to cut her off from your friends list and not to talk with her outside of your professional interactions.

It is none of your business to be aware of what is going on with her marriage and in her home. If you have a minimum of decency, then you tell her that you don't want to go out for a drink with her because she is pouring her soul out.

If her husband finds out that you are in the picture of what is happening, she will be in trouble because from there to believe that she is cheating on him with you, there is a very small step and you may be seen as a homewrecker.

Keep your distance from her.

[Nikki1989]

“she has with husband and has admitted that she has no intentions of telling him that we hang out after work sometimes”

That is your red flag right there.

[Abbycado]

If you have that vibe that it is different than friends, then don't go out for drinks anymore.

[missindiana93]

Sounds dangerous unless she's unattractive.