Men in their 30s, have you noticed this too?

[Anonymous]

Have you found women show more interest in you the older you get? I turned 30 last year. In most of my 20s women didn't show much interest in me, but for the last couple of years it seems women have started noticing me and showing interest so much more than in the past, especially this year. It's not like they know I turned 30, but it's almost as if a switch was flipped.

Is it just me, or is that true for other guys too?

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah, that's generally been my experience too. And I would also say that a lot of women are much less haughty and arrogant now than they were before. I think most people are just tired at this point.

The difference between the 20s and 30s is wild.

[Asker]

Yes! I've noticed that too. When I was younger women my same age tended to be more entitled and arrogant. But women my age now, and the younger ones, seem to be much less so to me now. Yeah, night and day difference. Not sure what that says about women's nature but I won't complain about it today.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm sure it's a blend of things. Getting more mature. Seeing what does and doesn't work. Getting kicked around by life. Just a general shift of life priorities.

[Asker]

Makes sense.

[Anonymous]

I turn 30 next month and yeah I have definitely noticed it. And it's not just women my age. I have had a lot more interest from women in their early to mind 20s as well, especially this year.

[Asker]

Interesting, good to know I'm not the only one.

[Nikki1989]

Most women know most men are immature brats until they are at least 30. You can see evidence of that on here every damn day.

[Asker]

What I see a lot more of here every damn day is you expressing your bitterness and anger. Jesus fucking Christ woman, you are one of the most prolific misandrists in GAG history. Your life must be fucking miserable. I truly feel sorry for you.

[red-lipstick-girl]

It's true most girls like older guys

[Asker]

Why is that? Just curious.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Because it is believed that men mature with age and older men have money.

[Asker]

Ok, fair enough. Thanks for the insight.

[TheSmellOfVictoria]

I was already married in my early 20's but women have told me that they really don't consider a guy in his 20's a "man" yet. I don't know what it is but they have said there's just a different look and maturity when they get into their 30's.

[SteveSmith1985]

No I can't say I've noticed that. I haven't noticed a change. I do notice that I used to spend a lot more time around a lot more women in the natural course of life, as I do now. But that's job-related.

Still, I don't think what you're noticing is a usual thing. I would just go with it, and not ask too many questions about it (you might jinx it)

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was 29 when we started dating, 31 now. Most men are too immature in their 20s.

[Asker]

That's probably true.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I started dating again when I was 50 and I was shocked how many women in their 20s wanted to date me. Dating was super easy.

[Asker]

My uncle is about your age. My aunt divorced him 4 years ago (don't get me started on that bullshit). After he got his feet under him again he's been loving life ever since. He's been dating and just doing friends with benefits with women in their 20s and 30s. Last time we talked he told me he won't ever get married again, but I guess we'll see.

[Avicenna]

I did get more women in my 30s, but I was already doing well in my 20s.

[Cristi019]

Not happening to me.

[Asker]

Sorry to hear it bro. I hope things improve.