Found my friends boyfriend on tinder?

[Anonymous]

I have now found one of my close friends boyfriend on tinder twice. The first time I showed her his profile, it said “active” and one of the pictures he had on his profile she took for him. When she confronted him, he said it was an old profile, well a few weeks ago I saw him on tinder again this time different pictures than what I remember. Unfortunately, I haven’t told her this time because I did once and she didn’t do anything and I decided it was best to stay out of it.

what I can’t understand is why in the hell, anyone would be ok with that? With the proof right in front of their face and continue to waste their time and life with someone who doesn’t respect let alone value them…

help me understand?

[Anonymous]

You don’t need to understand. It’s their relationship. You don’t know the whole situation of how their relationship works. Maybe she’d rather have someone who cheats then to be alone. Who knows. Maybe he provides for her so she’s ok w him cheating. Maybe she’s older so she feels as though she wouldn’t be able to find another man. Regardless it’s not your business. She will still defend him, take up for him till she realizes it on her own. Sometimes that’s what it takes. You can tell people things till you’re blue in the face but until they open their eyes for their self what you say really won’t matter.

[Anonymous]

She believed him