What if 2 girls like 1 guy and that guy is AuDHD and has no interest in anyone (I’m that guy)?

[UnfixedBulb6325]

I’m also starting to think about 1 of them (how?) and both are going to a very different place from me pretty soon. What should I do?

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The main reason I actually posted is because I’m seeing some signs of maybe catching feelings for 1. For some reason, both keep saying the other one is super interested but that they’re not interested. Another said they’re both really interested so I’m not sure lol but it’s kinda funny how they keep fighting over it and I still don’t really know about which one is true if any at all or both.

[_Maya_]

Well if you have no interest in anyone then why would it matter at all? It's quite simple. You dont have interstate in girls so why bother with them? You are of no obligation to entertain them no matter if you have ADHD or any other affliction. By the way... I'm not sure what that has to do with anything. I'm not familiar with AuDHD and if it relates to the autism spectrum as I suspect it does. Unfortunately this is not an area of medical study that I did so I could be completely wrong in my opinion. Mine is of a psychological and leaning towards criminal background than general psychology so this isn't something I'm qualified to speak about. Hell I haven't even graduated my masters yet. If you feel a certain and have been diagnosed with something then talk to the diagnosing doctor about it.

[UnfixedBulb6325]

AuDHD is ADHD + Autism. It is not an official term but diagnosed both so… also, I’m starting to see signs that I’m wondering: “could it be I’m catching feelings?” So that’s the main reason why I decided to look for answers along with the information so far.

[_Maya_]

So I'm not qualified despite being weeks away from masters in psychology. My area of study has nothing to do with what you claim to have. I've only touched upon those things and it has been many years. My best advice is to seek out tour doctor for advice. He/she will be better equipped to help you navigate this in a way that makes sense. Nonetheless I'm happy to give any non professional help or opinions that I can. I wish you the best of luck. I know this can't be easy for you.

[_Maya_]

*your doctor

[slatyb]

Politely decline any invitations.

[Anonymous]

You need to become interested.

[In_Trance]

Yeah ok

[fish5505_87]

Be honest?