How does it work if two guys like the same girl?

We're coworkers. Let's call them Andrew and Jason. They're best friends. I'm about 99% sure that Jason likes me, because it's extremely obvious and everyone tells me that he does. But I'm not into Jason. Then there's Andrew, who I have a crush on. Andrew is always stepping up to help me at work, he also randomly put his hand on top of my hand at work and stood really close to me. He's also flirted with me a little at work BUT he only talks to me at work when Jason isn't working. When Jason is working, Andrew doesn't talk to me. What's up with that? I've also noticed that Andrew kind of keeps an eye on me. Like he's always checking to see what I'm doing. He's not a manager or anything but he's always checking up and passing by, sees what I'm doing and then walks away. A couple of other coworkers have noticed that and brought it up to me. We talk a LOT when Jason isn't working. But if Jason is working, he'll completely ignore me and not talk to me. But Jason does talk to me.

So so what's going on? Why does he ignore me when Jason is there?

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  • Usually if there's 2 guys in the picture, they might observe who you like more (or hear from co-workers). The guy who finds out the girl likes someone else will usually lose interest pretty fast himself and that will pretty much be the end of it. Most guys nowadays won't fight over one girl the way you might see in movies - it just doesn't happen. Also men are almost never confrontational about stuff like this and will opt to just go for someone else rather than stir up drama.

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  • The only way to resolve this is by making their Ds hard and then duel to the death with them. Dick-Fencing or Dencing at its best.
    May the best man win the heart of the lady.

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  • Well. in my opinion, he's trying to be useful and when Jason is there, he feels like this is not necessary. Since everybody talks about how Jason "has" you, it is only natural for Andrew to stay away when he's around. Who know what people might comment if he (Andrew) do otherwise.

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  • Here's how it works out. Well you have a threesome, then you choose the one with a big dick, problem solved. Lol just kidding, but its a nice idea though.

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  • If two guys like a girl. One of them ends up alone

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  • it sounds like u want Andrew amd ge sounds like a nice guy go with him

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  • he comes down to who you want

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