When guys do this, do they even like either girl?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a while. We hang out and we did eventually get intimate. But we hanged out this past weekend. But just last night I was on my Facebook scrolling through “people you may know”. I came across this random girl’s page and the picture she took was in his car. I known this guy since high school and I know him enough to know he’s not related to this girl. Honestly I was crushed, felt low. It hurt more that we both had a conversation about our life problems and telling each other what we have been through. I believed everything he told me that he wouldn’t use me or try to play me. But here we are. I didn’t even know he was talking to her or seeing her. He was the first guy in a really long time that I hangout with and had sex with (which he knew that). I don’t go out much and I barely have friends as it is. But I had good intentions and I was honest about everything I said. But I’m curious if he’s doing the same with her. Maybe she thinks she’s the only one he’s talking to or seeing. I’m left wondering did he even like either of us or is he just using us both?

[Sixgunsound]

If you really want to spice things up, ask her how she knows him?

[dumbassstupid]

Observe and notice little things, like phone notifications or how active he is online. Also, you should have a conversation about it. Just to know what his real intentions are.

[Asker]

Before this even happen. I asked what his intentions were and he said that he is trying to get to know me and thinks I’m very pretty.

[dumbassstupid]

Well pretty is a very superficial compliment, it doesn’t really mean anything. A stranger can find you pretty too. I would just suggest you to distance a little and let him make efforts and moves. See how badly he wants you.

[Wise4myage]

Have you talked to him about this?

[Asker]

No I haven’t talked to him about. I mean isn’t that some signs he is having sex with her or talking to her?

[Asker]

The picture she took was posted just last night too.

[Wise4myage]

It could be, but you should discuss this with him.