Is it wrong or not, please vote?

[EmmiL]

I still can't get over this due to my friend doing a young girl. Is it wrong for a 40 year old to be fuck buddy's with a 19 year old considering the older one is a man?

Wrong

Okay

[WonderingManII]

I believe it is wrong to be having sex with someone you are not married too. With that being said, that girl is by law considered to be an adult. She can have sex with whoever she wants to have sex with, as long as it is with someone 18 or up.

[EmmiL]

So did you vote wrong or ok

[EmmiL]

@WonderingManII or you won't vote because none of the answers suit you?

[WonderingManII]

Neither one suits me but I voted with ok based on her age and the local laws where I live.

[serious]

It is fine as the girl would be over 18 meaning of legal age. Still it is strange given the age gap.

[EmmiL]

I guess I think this too

[serious]

Yes.

[236color]

But it's ok if the older one is a woman? And what do you suppose is the main attraction she sees to him, could it possibly be money? What is the biggest crime here? Is it that he's a borderline pedophile, or that she a borderline prostitute?

[EmmiL]

No its the same, man or woman

[Surely]

As long as they are both responsible adults. Providing neither have developmental or mental issues. What is the problem? It is their life to be happy in. Or to mess up any way that they choose!

[EmmiL]

I guess you are right

[Surely]

@emmil. Life is way too short to be worrying about things that you have no control over. Please enjoy your life the best that you can!

[EmmiL]

I guess

[Tarifa]

It's almost a generation gap, rather than an age gap. That would be a no for me personally if faced with a similar situation.

But then again, from 18 onwards, she can do as she pleases. They are consenting adults.

[loveslongnails]

Ask yourself if you're envious first, before you get into your moral outrage. If they're just sport fucking and she's fully aware that's all it is, why do you care?

[EmmiL]

I don't anymore

[molonski2]

Absolutely fine 100% , have done this many times.

[MysticDevice]

It may be technically legal but to me that kind of age gap is bordering on pedophilia.

[EmmiL]

What would you do in my position

[MysticDevice]

Voicing concern to your friend is about all you really can do unfortunately

[EmmiL]

What concern would you have?

[neelairf]

I'd leave it upto them. I don't think I'd wear the moral hat

[AustColombiangirl]

I was getting fcked by men that age when I was 14

[stratford]

As long as there is full consent, I don't see the issue.

[Samuel75]

Sex with someone you are not married to is totally against my belief. So I can't answer or vote.

[Jeff51]

It's kinda weird to me like she really is ok with someone twice her age. It's up to her

[dean55au]

If both parties are consenting then I don't think it's wrong.

[Yohenis]

It's alright 19 years old is a maturing stage of adulthood the consent age in usa is 16

[Professor-college]

Isn't that the combination that most young women want?

[EmmiL]

I guess it depends on the woman

[Professor-college]

Well at least with women I've seen or met they usually want a man who's more mature or older than she is

[Jennz6]

It’s her choice

[Johtolol98]

by law its ok but in my opinion its kind of treading on water when either is older like that.

[SarahP080106]

I've had a fuck buddy that was 75.

[EmmiL]

Wow...

[SarahP080106]

He was good

[dougeats]

wow! cool

[Paige90]

I voted that it was ok

[PeterLegg91]

No it's legal , but is morally wrong

[EmmiL]

You are contradicting yourself

[PeterLegg91]

Listen carefully I SAID ITS LEGAL WHICH IN THE EYES OF THE LAW IT IS, and I said BUT ITS MORALLY WRONG COS A 40 YR OLD MAN FUCKING A 19 YR OLD WOMAN, MOST PARENTS WOULD BE FUMING :(

[EmmiL]

I agree in that aspect, don't know about most though, but many would not like it.

I take your answer as yes it's wrong though

[EmmiL]

You should vote wrong

[EmmiL]

Poll says most are ok with it

[PeterLegg91]

I'm 50/50

[EmmiL]

Okay

[EmmiL]

Most people think it's OK in the poll

[AydenHazor]

As long as they both consent is ok

[Awantika03]

A tractor 🚜 can pull a small trolley 🛒

[dougeats]

she's an adult its her choice now

[MasterKS]

She is adult so its fine, its her choice.

[Danny_dan92]

I think so

[EmmiL]

Lol typical of you, your gender bias is weird as fuck

[Danny_dan92]

I think it’s weird regardless who’s who.

A 19 year old is not at the same mental capacity as someone in their 40’s

[EmmiL]

Would it be wrong If it was a 40 year old woman?

[Danny_dan92]

Read what I just said

[EmmiL]

"weird" is typically used by people who think the man is wrong but woman isn't, so they just try to cover it

[Danny_dan92]

You’re very dumb. Your reading and comprehension is flawed

[Danny_dan92]

But I’ll say it at the kindergarten level so you understand.

If the person in their 40’s is a man or a woman. And they are with a person that is half their age, (19) that is weird. Or wrong

[EmmiL]

Lol thanks for proving my point, weirdo.

[Danny_dan92]

You keep making new accounts asking the same question. I’m not the one that is weird

[EmmiL]

Lol I didn't read your previous reply before I posted my last comment.

But yeah, weird and wrong is not the same, you can be weird but still ok

[EmmiL]

I know your views very well though, stop pretending