Why do guys get insecure and act dumb when they are in relationship?

[Sam1133]

Yesterday I was at club with my friend and one couple sit next to our table. I had few eye contact with her n smiled. I went on dance floor after few minutes she went to washroom I thought she given me hint lol. I follow her n I said hi n you look so beautiful she smiled and her boyfriend caught us talking. My god the way he given her look so angry n they left club. 😂

[Genie23]

I mean she flirted with you. Of course, he'd be angry. Wouldn't you if you're really into someone maybe even love her. You're serious about her and she goes on to flirt with someone and hints him to meet near the washroom, so they could talk and end up sharing contact info?

[Sam1133]

But she didn't flirt with me at all she didn't even spoke a word with me...

She just smiled that's it...

[Genie23]

There's a difference between a kind smile and a flirty smile. Let's say even if she just smiled out of kindness or something. The fact that she hinted you to come talk to her alone while her boyfriend will be unaware is disrespectful and shady for sure. He wasn't mad at you. He was disappointed in her

[Genie23]

When I'm in a relationship, I'm very honest and open with my guy. I make sure to never do something that will make him doubt me or my intention. I don't secretly talk to random guys who approach me even if they're the most attractive or smartest. Now if those guys met me at work or something and we have known each other for a while and we eventually became friends, he would be totally fine with that but entertaining a total stranger who finds me attractive and flirting? He wouldn't take that very well

[Sam1133]

Yes you have point hope I will meet her again...😂

[Genie23]

SMH 😂

[Sam1133]

The way she smiled at me i bet she will come again at that club...🤣

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I've never been in a relationship.

[WonderingManII]

Our hormones do odd things to our brains.