What does it mean if a girl texts you after midnight while partying that "I was thinking about you"?

[Anonymous]

[WhitneySnow]

Means she was thinking about you while partying. Doesn’t necessarily mean she thinks about you sober, but it might. Text her back.

[Asker]

And say what? It has to mean something if she texted me out of all people

[WhitneySnow]

Start talking to you. See how she responds. It means she liked you while drunk. That may or may not mean she liked you the next day.

[Asker]

When she is sober she doesn't show her emotions like that. Let me ask you something. As a girl, if a guy says let's hang out or we should hang out, do you consider that to be vague without an actual plan?

[WhitneySnow]

That’s pretty vague yeah

[Razp_Sorbet]

It means... she was thinking about you... shocking I know

[Asker]

What does that mean? Honestly it sounds vague

[Razp_Sorbet]

It's pretty self explaining

[Asker]

Not really. It is pretty open for Interpretation

[McSteamy]

You did not mention how close She is with you. If she's just a friend She has some necessity with you.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say we are close friends but she knows I like her

[McSteamy]

Sometimes girls take advantage of guy's liking towards them. Be straightforward with her.

[shmeed]

She drunk and must really like you. Liquid courage. 🤣

[Asker]

You think she revealed her real feelings?

[shmeed]

Yes, have you ever drunk dialed someone? Girls hypothalamus is their sexual gate keeper. When they drink it permits more of their inhibitions so that's probably why she called you. Sorry that's kind of big brain stuff.

[shmeed]

She might've also been horny and knew that you might be the easy answer or hypothalamus was down sometimes sex drive can take over reasoning

[Asker]

She didn't call me. She texted me

[shmeed]

Same thing, text, call, what ever she did. Aks her why she text you the other night. I'm sure she will make up something. You can push it and say "really you text at 1200 for that". Maybe she'll tell the real reason. Let us know what she says.

[shmeed]

I'm guessing you want more than just freinds from her. Girls tend to want their cake and eat it too. If she can get emotionally what she needs from you and not the physical then your freind zoned. If so you need to have that convo and don't waste your time!

[ShannynSteen]

It means what it says but it means nothing unless she follows up with something else.

[Asker]

That message seems vague

[ShannynSteen]

Well how long have you known her?

[Asker]

For years. That message came out of the blue. It seemed odd that she would send that and she knows I like her

[Anonymous]

If you text her back, you will be having sex that night.

[Asker]

Elaborate on that. Why do you think that?

[Subtle_Luminescence]

She wants to get laid with you.

[Asker]

Why would that mean that?

[slatyb]

She's DTF. How much did she have to drink?

[Nikki1989]

Nothing, absolutely nothing.