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depends on the guy ma'am but I tell you what I prefer though I prefer the shy quiet girl if she is a virgin as well I say this because I'm a 23 year old virgin male and I'm saving my virginity for marriage and I expect her to do the same I would never date slutty girls I mean why should I so she can cheat on me,back stab me and betray me. If she want to talking to me or have a nice talk and maybe she can open up to me a little I will give her time and space and she is always welcome to talk to me if she wants to talk all she gotta do is ask if she wish to talk to me. I will help her with her shyness and help her open up to me and/or anybody I hope this answer your question if you got anything to ask me or if you got any questions you like to ask me feel free to ask me and I will see if I can answer your question1
1) yes they do, because they can get in their pants. 2) no, but most high school guys just want to get in a girls' pants and they will overlook quiet girls because they don't put out, 3) what you're really asking is how can I get these guys to pay attention to me and the answer is YOU DO NOT WANT ATTENTION FROM GUYS THAT ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO THE KIND OF GIRLS YOU'RE DESCRIBING. so really, this isn't even a question. love yourself, set boundaries and standards, and stick to them.2
Guys now a days just want sex. That's why they want those type of girls, cause they think they're easy. Don't change! Be yourself, you'll find the right guy that way.3
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The thing is, lots of men like girls like you in theory, however, its impossible to know that you are like that because you are shy. So its not that they prefer women who extremely outgoing, its just that by definition these girls are making sure guys know about them and you aren't. So it's kind of a catch 22. Although yes girls who can wear the least and still act comfortable give off a certain vibe of a woman who is free in her body, which is fairly irresistible.0
first of all, that's a very generalized, binary question. Those are two VERY opposite ends of the spectrum, which not many people are at.
Being outgoing =/= sleazy.
If you're asking personal preference though, it still depends on the girl. Generally probably the more shy one, but that's no guarantee.
Seriously though, I think you need a paradigm shift (sorry for the big words) - you description is littered with stereotypes.0
To be honest, guys like girls like that because they seem easier to get into bed. Not to say all guys are like that. I prefer a nice quiet girl who's kind and caring over an under-dressed attention seeking high maintenance pain in the... Yeah. Most guys in high school aren't looking for a relationship, they just want relations. I doubt they are intimidated by you, they don't think you'll satisfy their wants.10
You can be more attractive if you do something creative on your appearance.0
Slutty quiet girls, actually.22
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I like shy, quiet girls who are also slutty! Pretend you are a guy for a minute. Would you pick the girl who gave you attention, flirted with you, maybe even picked up on you, or the girl who sat by and did nothing to win your affection. Its not because they think that girls body is somehow more worthwhile than your personality, it's that the guy probably get no sign that the shy quiet one is interested.
And honestly I find sluttiness to be kind of a turn on. It show that the girl doesn't have reservations about sex, they are not ashamed by that side of themselves. That and if a girl actually has enough confidence to approach me with interest in something either sexual or romantic its going to stand out and make me feel desired and wanted because usually the guy is always expected to try to make the first move.
In short; you dont have to be slutty about it. But if you want a man to see you, you approach him. This may sound obvious but how we see girls is based on how they act towards us boys. If you have a great personality than show it to him so he knows.