What it means when a boy meets too many girls and has too many friends who are girls. does it mean he sleeps with those girls?

[barbzz]

[Hardon-Collider]

No. It means he's stuck on a very old, very unconscious dynamic. The soul needs to engage with the feminine to understand itself, but the danger is mistaking the physical for the soul. In ancient times, the soul could directly engage with the feminine in a spiritual way. Now, that connection has to go through the subconscious, and it often comes out as a raw, physical conquest. He's not necessarily sleeping with them, but he's likely not engaging their souls either. He's just using their bodies, a pattern that echoes back to a time when humanity was more in tune with a world that is now long dead.

[es20490446e]

NO!!

I'm an attractive guy, and I'm usually surrounded by women.

But most single women prove afterwards not to be a good candidate for a relationship.

I have sex with a few of them, wanting to get serious, but it rarely happens!

I discover later on that they are very messed up, or that they just pretend to be serious.

I maybe could try not to have sex with anyone, but that also doesn't work very well. They just assume I'm not into them.

I suspect many women think I'm kind of a player, when I reality I just want to have a monogamous relationship.

To be honest, I'm extremely confused on what to do about this.

[Anonymous]

I ain't say yes, but my ex did have a lot of girl friends
And one of his "homegirl" were tight (she's a virgin) but one day he asked me if I thought she was attractive & asked me if I would have do a 3some with him & her. Just wishful thinking

We were intimate, and we also broke up months later
He asked if we could still be friends and sometimes hits me up for sex

After the breakup, he also told me about his other "homegirls" visiting and sometimes being intimate

[SueShe]

That does not have to mean that he is actually fornicating all those girls. Most of the time, it remains wishful thinking of his part.

I hope that all those girls realize that he is a player and that he hovers around them with only one single intention.

The sad thing is that he puts his hopes high that it will eventually happen. There is unfortunately no age limit with men that a that way. They all think they are attractive, even past their sixties.

[es20490446e]

I can find a woman attractive, and that doesn't mean I want to have sex with her or prefer just to have a friendship.

The kind of situation and relationship we have also counts.

[dwreborn]

Could mean a bunch of things first thing that comes to my mind is gay unless he isn't then he is just looking for which one he wants if he's a player he's not gonna spend to much time on one girl

[FunkyMonkee]

Of course not!! I've had WAY more girl friends over the decades and never slept with any of them!! Okay, I DID sleep with Jennifer one night but, we were both fully clothed and there was no sex at all.

[Nikki1989]

You are making a big assumption here.

No, that doesn't mean that at all.

[serious]

No it does not mean he sleeps with those girls. It is a good question what you have asked though

[glennos89]

If he is a player he probably wants to sleep with them, but if he is shy he probably doesn't

[jamesgoldman]

He's either sleeping with them/wants to do so or he's gay

[Kelly6]

@barbzz player