What does it mean when a guy has more female friends?

[Eskandra]

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Should I worry about it?

[JennyDarling]

I wouldn't worry about it. My boyfriend is the same way, he's always had more female friends than male. He is very loyal, and he is careful to behave in a way that won't make me feel uncomfortable. He does hug them and what not, but we do discuss boundaries and if it made me uncomfortable he wouldn't do it. If it makes you a little nervous, I suggest you be upfront and talk to him about it honestly :)

[Eskandra]

I wish I could but he is my crush

[JennyDarling]

Ohh I see. Then you might want to just watch and see for a little bit. Perhaps he really does just vibe more with girls and there's nothing to be concerned with, or maybe he's a little bit of a player who likes female attention. See if you can figure it out

[Eskandra]

I'll try to

[Fitness-Fanatic]

He may have a better rapport with women, and relate to women more than he can relate to men.

It's not a worry If he respects your boundaries , and has friendship boundaries with his female friends.

It's a red flag if he never introduces you to them though, or keeps you a secret from them

[Ankitasingh466]

I don't care now cauz we are engaged and getting married this Christmas. But if I notice him going too close to other female friends , I pinch him and he will be like "sorry babe". 😆

[Eskandra]

Oh good then congrats.. He is my crush so I can't tell him to

[Ankitasingh466]

Just say ur crush u love him.

[Eskandra]

It's hard

[Ankitasingh466]

Do u love him?

[Eskandra]

Yes.. I really love him

[Ankitasingh466]

Just say it to him then.

[Eskandra]

I might do

[Ankitasingh466]

How do U react when he talks to other girls?

[Eskandra]

As nothing happening ignore it

[Eskandra]

And I actually smile to then sometimes

[Eskandra]

Then *

[Eskandra]

Them*

[Ankitasingh466]

Hmm... Good

[Eskandra]

But wrong 😂

[Ankitasingh466]

U know when I ask my boyfriend "wt were U talking to that girl"? . He will be like "nothing babe", and when i pinch him "he will be like "bla bla bla "😂

[Eskandra]

😂😂😂Bless you

[ThoughtCleric]

No he is just a nice guy and seems far less threatening to be around. When you met him did he try to go straight to bed with you or did he befriend you first. If he tried to jump your bones on the first or second date. Worry. If you and him took it really slow. Just keep an eye on the situation. You definitely should hang with them andnlet them know who is boss tho, just to be safe.

[Eskandra]

True so true actually

[CoffeeWC]

Don't worry about it. Remember that they are FRIENDS. They do what FRIENDS do. However you should keep in mind that his FRIENDS probably know more about him than you do. The majority of my small group of friends is female. I think of them as FRIENDS, nothing more nothing less. I would want something different for a girlfriend than I would want in a FRIEND.

[Eskandra]

Tell me when I ur birthday I want to know if ur star sign like his

[CoffeeWC]

I'm an Aquarius

[Eskandra]

Oh God

[Eskandra]

He is Scorpio

[CoffeeWC]

I am definitely not a Scorpio

[Eskandra]

Hhh yes I see

[CoffeeWC]

I don't really know much about Scorpio.

[CoffeeWC]

But if I had to make a guess it might mean you have competition.

[Eskandra]

I know but my star sign works well with his

[CoffeeWC]

What sign are you?

[Eskandra]

Taurus

[CoffeeWC]

Ok cool

[Eskandra]

😄😄

[CoffeeWC]

Thanks for MHO

[steveguitar]

Just that he doesn't have as many guy friends, no biggie. Maybe he didn't like where his childhood guy friends ended up as they got older, every guy can make friend with other guys I believe, sometimes it just takes time to get into a new group, especially when older

[CaffeinatedCactus]

No, sometimes guys just get along better with girls. I would take it as a good sign tbh, unless he is prioritizing them over you (if you are in a relationship)

[Eskandra]

True ☺☺ thanks for that

[Didi1337]

Trough my life there has been multiple periodes, where i have had more girl friends than guy friends. It's just locations change and you might change yourself, but all my life i've allways set up rules for what my friends are like. And wether its a girl or a guy, if it's a person i wanna be friends with, then i just become friends with them

[HikerDude]

It means he gets along better with women. I'm the same. I like guys, but most of them are too competitive, and most get jealous if you do better than them. I've had several friendships with guys end because they got jealous over the girls I dated.

[Silver158]

I prefer the company of women generally. but at the same time you can't beat male humour or banter. So there has to be a balance, Having more female friends than male is fine but if he doesn't have any male friends then there's possibly a deeper underlying issue, like he sees other men as competition or he tends to be the "Bitch" in a group (gets picked on), or he's more in touch with his feminine side and doesn't have any typical male interests (I don't like sports for example), or he's gay.

[justmeladies123]

Well it seems like women are better freinds, usually bring own supplies to party and dudes drink all your drinks, don't even out rachiou women too men , so my conclusion is women are just better freinds I'm straight and recently single and could use more ladie freinds myself wouldn't be too worried usually.

[Carley99]

I heard a guy talking to him self on the street saying this that woman friends more compassionate

[justmeladies123]

Well they usually bring there own party supplies and are more fun I think.

[Carley99]

Yeah that's true 🤔

[debi2622]

Does he have only sisters? Some men that have grown up with women are more comfortable with them than with men. And he understands women better. Not a bad thing necessarily.

[Tessi]

I was raised by a single mom, who later had a daughter and I always feel more comfortable having a deeper friendship connection to women than men.
You made a great point!

[sugarette]

He gets along with women better than with men. Nothing to worry about.

[Eskandra]

I can't I always see him hanging out with them 😏

[sugarette]

And? Why do you even care. That's his business.

[Eskandra]

I know but I kind of worry that he might be a fuckboy and I like him that's it

[sugarette]

If he turns out to be one, that's a sign to move on. But like, I have some male friends and that doesn't mean I'm attracted to them. It depends on every person.

[Eskandra]

Yh true

[AbagailGun]

Nope some girls fit in with boys more than girls same way around my male friend hangs out with girls more than boys but isn't romantic with them all just isn't into what most boys are into

[ConorFisher]

Having female friends isn't a problem if the female friends aren't interested in the guy. However guys would generally get with a friend no strings attached. I wouldn't do it, if i was in a relatio ship, but if i was single I would happily go with a mate.

[Angel_123]

OFC not lol the guy i like who likes me he has girl mates even talks to girls they are just mates because he acts diff to them and with me... aka more flirty with me... them just banta

[mrb187]

Most of my really close friends are female, but I don't mess around with them, they're genuenly just friends. It doesn't mean much really (Though it can on some cases. Just keep an eye open if he has a tendency to be an f boy)

[ScaryCool]

It means he just likes hanging out with girls more. Probably because they have more to talk about at times. I've had good guy friends growing up, but some guys as adults are just boring as hell.

[Skullpool]

You shouldn't, at least in my case. I don't really like men because they seem simple, even bored people, so I just talk to women, that doesn't mean that I'm interested on them. Even though, we all are different, so I don't know how the guy you're talking about is. If you feel you can trust him, do it no matter what he does, but if you can't trust your partner, then he shouldn't be

[AbdKilani]

i think it means he is a good guy, or a player
Don't know really

[Eskandra]

Hopefully good guy hhh

[AbdKilani]

Good luck :)

[Eskandra]

Thank u..

[AbdKilani]

Welcome :)

[Eskandra]

☺☺☺...

[cassandraa]

He probably relates with them more, or is trying to surround himself in girls as in he's a bit of a fuckboy. Usually it's the first option, but I've seen the second option happen before with guys.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It could mean he gets along with females better than males.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If your worried about it tell him how you feel. Let him know how you feel about it. It's better to let him know rather than to leave him making you wonder. If he loves you than you should be able to trust him with his female friends.

[Eskandra]

True I might do

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes that's what i would do if i had a girlfriend with many female friends.

[Eskandra]

True

[Eskandra]

But I don't have ur confident

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Okay i see well understood :) Peace

[Eskandra]

Yes ☺☺

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm a nice guy who wears my heart on my sleeve
when i had girlfriends i never had a bunch of female friends
cause my girlfriend at the time was enough for me i didn't
need to have female friends. But all guys aren't the same.
But there are some guys who are the same. It's all got to
do with the guy himself. I tried my best to help you.
Best Wishes on this matter!!!

[Eskandra]

Oh thank u very much

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You're Welcome :)

[Eskandra]

☺☺☺☺☺☺

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

:D :) :-D :-) ;) :-P

[Eskandra]

😂😂😂😂☺☺☺

[BipBipLeddus]

Means he's good at understand and communicating feelings outside of the realm of "ohh, you touch my tra-la-la. ooh, my ding-ding-dong"

[Carley99]

Most men that have female friends mostly respect women, and that's good either way. So he's either a ladies man or gay.

[ImagineSketchy]

I have a lot of female friends... so I've been wondering about this myself. I guess those females want a good guy friend. I don't know.
I wouldn't worry about it.