What does it mean when a guy has more female friends?

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JennyDarling · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't worry about it. My boyfriend is the same way, he's always had more female friends than male. He is very loyal, and he is careful to behave in a way that won't make me feel uncomfortable. He does hug them and what not, but we do discuss boundaries and if it made me uncomfortable he wouldn't do it. If it makes you a little nervous, I suggest you be upfront and talk to him about it honestly :)

Fitness-Fanatic · Accepted Answer

He may have a better rapport with women, and relate to women more than he can relate to men.

It's not a worry If he respects your boundaries , and has friendship boundaries with his female friends.

It's a red flag if he never introduces you to them though, or keeps you a secret from them

Ankitasingh466 · Accepted Answer

I don't care now cauz we are engaged and getting married this Christmas. But if I notice him going too close to other female friends , I pinch him and he will be like "sorry babe". 😆

ThoughtCleric · Accepted Answer

No he is just a nice guy and seems far less threatening to be around. When you met him did he try to go straight to bed with you or did he befriend you first. If he tried to jump your bones on the first or second date. Worry. If you and him took it really slow. Just keep an eye on the situation. You definitely should hang with them andnlet them know who is boss tho, just to be safe.

CoffeeWC · Accepted Answer

Don't worry about it. Remember that they are FRIENDS. They do what FRIENDS do. However you should keep in mind that his FRIENDS probably know more about him than you do. The majority of my small group of friends is female. I think of them as FRIENDS, nothing more nothing less. I would want something different for a girlfriend than I would want in a FRIEND.

steveguitar · Answer

Just that he doesn't have as many guy friends, no biggie. Maybe he didn't like where his childhood guy friends ended up as they got older, every guy can make friend with other guys I believe, sometimes it just takes time to get into a new group, especially when older

CaffeinatedCactus · Answer

No, sometimes guys just get along better with girls. I would take it as a good sign tbh, unless he is prioritizing them over you (if you are in a relationship)

Didi1337 · Answer

Trough my life there has been multiple periodes, where i have had more girl friends than guy friends. It's just locations change and you might change yourself, but all my life i've allways set up rules for what my friends are like. And wether its a girl or a guy, if it's a person i wanna be friends with, then i just become friends with them

HikerDude · Answer

It means he gets along better with women. I'm the same. I like guys, but most of them are too competitive, and most get jealous if you do better than them. I've had several friendships with guys end because they got jealous over the girls I dated.

Silver158 · Answer

I prefer the company of women generally. but at the same time you can't beat male humour or banter. So there has to be a balance, Having more female friends than male is fine but if he doesn't have any male friends then there's possibly a deeper underlying issue, like he sees other men as competition or he tends to be the "Bitch" in a group (gets picked on), or he's more in touch with his feminine side and doesn't have any typical male interests (I don't like sports for example), or he's gay.

justmeladies123 · Answer

Well it seems like women are better freinds, usually bring own supplies to party and dudes drink all your drinks, don't even out rachiou women too men , so my conclusion is women are just better freinds I'm straight and recently single and could use more ladie freinds myself wouldn't be too worried usually.

Angel_123 · Answer

OFC not lol the guy i like who likes me he has girl mates even talks to girls they are just mates because he acts diff to them and with me... aka more flirty with me... them just banta

debi2622 · Answer

Does he have only sisters? Some men that have grown up with women are more comfortable with them than with men. And he understands women better. Not a bad thing necessarily.

sugarette · Answer

He gets along with women better than with men. Nothing to worry about.

AbagailGun · Answer

Nope some girls fit in with boys more than girls same way around my male friend hangs out with girls more than boys but isn't romantic with them all just isn't into what most boys are into

ConorFisher · Answer

Having female friends isn't a problem if the female friends aren't interested in the guy. However guys would generally get with a friend no strings attached. I wouldn't do it, if i was in a relatio ship, but if i was single I would happily go with a mate.

mrb187 · Answer

Most of my really close friends are female, but I don't mess around with them, they're genuenly just friends. It doesn't mean much really (Though it can on some cases. Just keep an eye open if he has a tendency to be an f boy)

ScaryCool · Answer

It means he just likes hanging out with girls more. Probably because they have more to talk about at times. I've had good guy friends growing up, but some guys as adults are just boring as hell.

Skullpool · Answer

You shouldn't, at least in my case. I don't really like men because they seem simple, even bored people, so I just talk to women, that doesn't mean that I'm interested on them. Even though, we all are different, so I don't know how the guy you're talking about is. If you feel you can trust him, do it no matter what he does, but if you can't trust your partner, then he shouldn't be

AbdKilani · Answer

i think it means he is a good guy, or a player  Don't know really

cassandraa · Answer

He probably relates with them more, or is trying to surround himself in girls as in he's a bit of a fuckboy. Usually it's the first option, but I've seen the second option happen before with guys.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It could mean he gets along with females better than males.

BipBipLeddus · Answer

Means he's good at understand and communicating feelings outside of the realm of "ohh, you touch my tra-la-la. ooh, my ding-ding-dong"

Carley99 · Answer

Most men that have female friends mostly respect women, and that's good either way. So he's either a ladies man or gay.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

I have a lot of female friends... so I've been wondering about this myself. I guess those females want a good guy friend. I don't know.  I wouldn't worry about it.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Guys like that come in all types: ranging from the super-effeminate, to guys who simply find feminine companionship more along the lines of what he needs in his life.

We'd have to know him in person to see for sure.

laevo · Answer

Well I'm a female that has mostly male friends and that doesn't make me more promiscuous or likely to cheat so I wouldn't worry about it

MrKinktastic · Answer

That he gets along better with women then men. Im kind of like that, or was moreso when I was younger.

thatusmctexan · Answer

I have pretty much only female friends because I just don't get along well with guys in my age group. Females, despite being sometimes petty, are generally more mature and I prefer to be surrounded by a mature audience.

rhody · Answer

That females are comfortable with him amd trust him. He gets along with them than guys do. I get along with females better than guys because they have more sense but they tend to rant a lot 😅

Anonymous · Answer

I personally do not really like guys who hang around girls too much. There is this one guy I was rather fond of who hung out with girls but other guys not so much.

TGFH-Satan · Answer

I don't know about others, but for me, I'm just around more females, so i befreind them more often. Means nothing for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I used to have this "problem" back at school, people would judge me as being gay, when in fact, we had a good time/many laughs and they gave me advice on talking with girls etc.

EMi16 · Answer

Doesn't matter much, as long as you don't overthink.

Anonymous · Answer

It means he is either gay, or, he is taking a very passive approach to women, by way of requiring to be noticed and appreciated, rather than to express what he wants and trying to get it

coolbreeze · Answer

It means the ladies like him better then the fellas.

OatsnWhey · Answer

Means he’s feminine and therefore gets along with women more than men because he can relate to them better.

Skagish · Answer

Most straight men have male friends because they can enjoy same mindset and topics. The men that have mostly ONLY women friends are most likely bisexual or gay. And men with close GUY friends and a lot of FEMALE friends are PLAYERS.

Anonymous · Answer

no, he can just prefer to talk to girls because there's a certain pressure between people of the same gender. i have mostly guy friends as well. my boyfriend know my reason and doesn't mind as long as I tell him I love him once in a while

Raymond_Reddington · Answer

He’s good with the ladies. What does it mean if a guy has more imaginary friends than real ones?

dat_guy · Answer

I have all sisters and no brothers. I'm used to the company of females. He could just be used to that.

Deathraider · Answer

Most of my friends are girl mainly because I was friend with a girl who has tons of friends, who in turn has tons of friends.  Not at all.

Anonymous · Answer

It means that it’s very likely that he doesn’t have misogynistic thoughts

Aryan2205 · Answer

It depends from each individual Maybe the guy is a feminist or has a very understanding nature or he has intentions of having a relationship with any girl he likes

Kai02 · Answer

It means he has female friends. Thats literally it.

Kat17 · Answer

My partner has more female friends. My partner gets on better with females.

roughedges · Answer

Don't worry. It is more about his desire to not hang out with guys than vice versa

BeReal26 · Answer

That's perfectly fine, It just means he's more comfortable around women. Don't take it personally.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Means he's not a stereotypical guy and he likes to comfort and talk about feelings. Empaths are kinda like that.

torwulf · Answer

He's probably a nice guy (nice guy syndrome is an extremely common mental condition today)

rahul_24 · Answer

Just means he gets along with girls easily like. Nothing really to worry about tbh

Anonymous · Answer

Either he is gay or a ladies' man. Probably not a good choice for a partner.

harry143143 · Answer

It depends on the amount of trust you have in him if you trust him and he's worthy of being trusted then don't worry

JohnFrost · Answer

No it means he is likeable for girls. That's probably why you like him.

DarkAsh · Answer

It means the same when a female has many male friends.

fuzzylamba · Answer

Nah don't worry about it, but be careful because I bet they will give him advice.

Achellis · Answer

Either he is attractive or he is good at manner of speak (includes flirting )

HoloBump · Answer

In my honest opinion males and females can't be just friends IF they are single. But if he is in a relationship there is nothing to worry about

jacklauder99 · Answer

I have more female friends. This is becuase at college my class has 1 other guy and 22 girls lol I'd like to have more male friends if I'm honest.

daqvanle · Answer

It means he can replace if you leave. If you worry it's cause you don't want another woman to have him.

Alex089 · Answer

It depends on how he conducts himself with these women. If he turns to them to confide, it is not a good sign.

Anonymous · Answer

He prefers to talk to women and he likely understands them better. Nothing to worry about.

BigJake · Answer

Why would you worry about this?

danielmash · Answer

It means you both will have more fun.

awkwardman · Answer

Nothing. Your just jealous.

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