What does it mean when a guy has more female friends than guy friends?

[lost-angel]

What can you say about guys (in a committed relationship) who have more female friends than guy friends?

[Anonymous]

No offense meant, but IMO, I find it unattractive... and a bit disturbing.

I do not mean to be insensitive about it. I just don't like, for simple reason that I am not oriented with that kind of setup. I have a good family background. I have a sister and I have two brothers, one older and one younger than me. I am also close to my father.

I am quiet disturb when a guy has a lot of female friends that he go along with in real life, contact through mobile phone, and chat online. I see him less of a man, personally. If he prefers to go with females than males like him, I'll wonder if he can't relate well with guys like him.

I mean, he's a man. He should be with men. He can definitely have female friends but he can't always hide behind the company of women who give him comfort or nurturing. He's not a child anymore. And if he's not secretly gay, there's no reason for him to be uncomfortable around men like him.

[cathydenyo]

it not bad for them to have a lot of famel friends but why do they give them much attention, i think they need to give their galfriends more attention.

[Littletad]

I was raised by a single mother, who didn't remarry til I was 9 or 10. She had 3 aunts who took turns looking out for me as I grew up. So naturally, I became more drawn to women in social gatherings. I think just because he has many girl friends, despite being in a relationship, means nothing.

Many guys also have a bunch of female friends, for the sole purpose of believing that other females will find that attractive. A bit similar to believing some girls are attracted to boyfriends or married men.

[Littletad]

I meant 3 sisters.

[NotSoBad]

probably means he gets along with women easier than he gets along with men. people can put up walls with the same sex just like they do in relationships with the opposite sex. maybe the guy had some guy friends that d***ed him over when he was younger and now he has a hard time trusting guys as friends.

Or possibly he was raised by his mother and his father was never really friendly to him. It doesn't mean he is a bad guy, it may mean he is actually more sensitive.

[ErikM]

I have more female than male friends. What does it mean? For me, personally, it means that I prefer to talk to girls because girls are more about conversations and how you're doing, while guys are more about what you do together. I think that girls are also comfortable talking to me, and online girls will write me in order to get to know me. I think it would be weird to talk to guys online.

[diablo1903]

I have more female friends than male friends, and personally its because I feel like I get along with them a lot better

No, I'm not gay.

[loudman1994]

I was basically going to say the exact same thing

[DariusNights]

that means he have many female friends ! what about it ? females are human beings just as any other person...

[TaraisHereKinda]

around 35 he'll come out of closet, that's what that means.

[Littletad]

No it doesn't.

[AnonymousDude]

I have more friends who are girls than I do have friends who are guys, And I'm defiantly not gay.

Girls tend to be nicer(hanging out wise), not focus every conversation on their boobs (opposed to guys bringing up something about their d***), and do understand people have feelings unlike guys making everyone else feel like crap

also, wouldn't it be gayer to want to be around guys instead of girls?

[TaraisHereKinda]

Experience, mine tells me my answer - it's why judgments EXIST!

[larry69]

men should not have as many female friends as male friends and vice versa!

[Anonymous]

Honestly those sorts of guys are usually manwhores.

[lost-angel]

yah... I'm glad it's over.

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes that guy just happens to have a lot of women that want to f*** him through no fault of his own lol

[ltmcneill]

He might be gay

[Ligeakamathnerd]

Why do you think that he would be gay? I know what the word means its just that I would like some details like for an example(You think a boy making a bunch of girlfriends rather than guy friends is werid or abnormal)or something in that are because with most thing detail does matter.