Girls, are you more likely to dress to draw attention to your boobs, or to draw attention away from them?

[Anonymous]

MORE LIKELY TO DRESS TO DRAW ATTENTION TO MY BOOBS

MORE LIKELY TO DRESS TO DRAW ATTENTION AWAY FROM MY BOOBS

SOMETHING ELSE OR NOT SURE

[Nikki1989]

I have been wearing the same tops since I was a young teen, so I see no point in stopping now. If people want to cop an eyeful, they can go for it. I have learned to ignore the staring eyes.

[Tereza07]

It depends where im going. But if I want to look great them I draw attention to them.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Questions like these just tell me you don’t actually see women as people

[heruncommonsense]

I just dress comfortably and I personally like bright colors.

The only difference between how I dress in private and public is that in public I wear animal bracelets.

[Asker]

So you don't think about your "girls" at all when you dress?

[heruncommonsense]

No. But I have never gotten into fancy bras, I just wear sports bras, and I wear T-shirts and occasionally button-ups. I don't wear fancy dresses with cleavage or whatever.
Also I'm a man-hating virgin, so I have no intention of attracting males.
I tried bra pads to cover my nipples, but they moved around too much and I don't like how they make my chest look bigger so I stopped wearing them.

[Asker]

Are you hoping to attract girls?

How much do you hate men?

[heruncommonsense]

Nah, I'm straight.
I'm a girly girl so I've never really seen males as pleasant, but then I found out that they say stuff like:
"All men will commit rape if they think they will get away with it"
"We need government-issued girlfriends"
"Men are simple creatures who only want food and sex"
"Men are biologically wired to cheat" (Implying that males have no self-control)
So now I think males are straight up monsters. It's very counterintuitive and a little sad to me so I'm struggling to accept it but I can't just ignore what males admit.
The reason why I'll definitely never lose my virginity is that males strangle women during sex, and the loss of blood flow to the brain causes brain damage. Brain damage is my worst fear

[Asker]

Okay, so not ALL men strangle women during sex. A very very small number of them do it because they're crazy psychos or whatever. And them some men strange women during sex because women want them too, because asphyxiation is supposed to intensify the orgasm.

You could probably find a guy who won't cheat and won't rape you. Guys who say stuff like that are either (a) trying to justify their own bad behavior, or (b) trying to show that they're "one of the good ones."

Are you in the USA? Or somewhere else in the world?

[heruncommonsense]

I'm American, why? Do you think I'm Indian or something?
But it's crazy to say few males strangle women during sex.
"Sexual choking is a more informal label for strangulation. It involves the grabbing, holding or compression of another’s neck either by hands, or limb, or by use of a prop or weapon, and typically involves restriction of blood or air flow. When it is used as part of a sexual encounter, it is frequently referred to as “erotic asphyxiation” or “breath play”."
"A survey for the BBC in 2019 found that in a study of 2,000 young women aged 18–39, 38% had experienced unwanted slapping, choking, gagging or spitting during otherwise consensual sex. And a similar proportion of men admit to choking or strangling a partner during sex without their consent." Those are just the ones who admit it.
Look it up since it won't let me link the article

[Asker]

But the fact that 38% percent of women have experienced this doesn't mean it's a common experience.

Most adults over the age of 25 have been in a traffic accident, but traffic accidents are still (thankfully) rare.

And there's a big difference between trying a little gentle choking, and stopping when the girl doesn't like it; and honest to goodness strangulation.

[heruncommonsense]

Yeah, you're just proving my point. The fact that a third of males admit that they strangle women does mean that it's common.
People don't just accept "gentle" car accidents since they're normal.

"Choking" is just a cute word for strangulation. I swear, "gentle" means nothing to males. The loss of blood flow to the brain is what causes brain damage, even if she can breathe she's getting injured.
YOU DON'T GET CONSENT AFTER THE FACT. Even if she tells you to stop, you're gonna keep doing it and say that she's just pretending not to like it. You males play those games all the time.
I'm not sacrificing cognitive function for sex.

[heruncommonsense]

"I'll only permanently injure her without consent once if she doesn't like it" Is why women are opting out. I've already had a male on 4chan try to convince me that I DO want to be strangled. Fuck, males are so evil it's mind-boggling

[Asker]

If what you're saying was true, and women were being constantly strangled by men to the point that they suffered permanent brain injury, then we would see the results of this. Every time you went out in public, you would see brain-damaged adult women who need help tying their own shoes, are unable to speak in complete sentences, and drool on themselves. You are not seeing that.

You are living in a fantasy world.

[heruncommonsense]

... Have you been strangled? Brain injury=/= immediate, disabling brain injury.
There ARE plenty of women walking around with brain damage. You're just being a retard, thinking im black and white to justify being dark gray. Typical moidslop.
This stupid website won't let me send the link, so look up: mdlinx. com This sex act has been linked to signs of brain damage in young women

[heruncommonsense]

"You are living in a fantasy world where violence leads to injury" Bro could be the secretary of health

[Asker]

If you really believe the danger is that severe, you should avoid contact with all males, never have sex, and never reproduce.

The human race will be better off if you choose to do this.

[heruncommonsense]

I already said that I'm a man-hating virgin, retard. I DO avoid all contact with males. Incels gotta stop projecting.
+Being involuntarily celibate and acting superior to someone who's voluntarily celibate is craaazy 🤦‍♀️
You aren't even pretending that some males aren't violent anymore.
Also, it turns out choking is likely the second most common cause of strokes for young women. But no one's ever been hurt from a stroke!11!1!

[heruncommonsense]

Everything males say makes me hate them more. I wonder if you do this on purpose.

[Asker]

The gates of Hell are locked from the inside.

You have chosen your own fate.

Enjoy it.

[heruncommonsense]

My guy, there is no "female 'loneliness' epidemic"
Only a male would compare virginity to hell. If I want to get off, there are a thousand other ways.
PS i found another reason why you're wrong from webmd: Mental health risks of sexual choking. Being frequently choked by your sexual partner may cause mental health issues such as depression, mood disorders, and problems with mental skills, research shows. The highest risk was found in women choked more than five times in the past month. They were more likely to feel sad, lonely, anxious, and depressed, compared to women without a history of being choked as part of sex.

[heruncommonsense]

Also, males deny that women can even get horny and expect head don't give it. Sex often hurts like hell for women. I'm not impoverished so I have literally no reason to play the game

[Asker]

The hell you've made for yourself has nothing to do with virginity, little girl.

Enjoy smashing the patriarchy.

[heruncommonsense]

I'm sure you're older than me little bro😭😭😭 I can just tell 😭😭😭😭
I'm a woman, in a "woman's world", believing what males say about themselves, and that's supposed to be hell?

Hell is surprisingly peaceful and safe!