Is it weird that to be honest I don't mind my husband working long hours?

[Anonymous]

I enjoy his company but sometimes I just want to do my own thing and just having him home kind of like stresses me out or like I don't know when he's not home I feel like I can be myself way much more and I feel like more free doing whatever I need to do or want to do but like when he gets home it's like I don't know I don't feel that freedom or confidence expressing myself like I feel I have to put this mask and pretend to be somebody I'm not and all relaxation and peace leaves the house when he gets home

[Nikki1989]

Everyone needs alone time. Marriage is all about balance, and you definitely don't need to be glued together 24/7.

[PrinceAlbert57]

I don’t think so. We all enjoy some time alone, unless you just don’t really like him and if that is the case then at least be honest with him so you can both move on.

[Anonymous]

So in other words you shouldn’t have gotten married. I feel sorry for your husband. Unless he’s some mean, abusive POS I think you’re in the wrong.

[beenherebefore]

Nothing wrong with that. I think is important that in long term relationships people do their own thing without the other Partner sometimes.

[jahaims]

You married the wrong person and for the wrong reasons if you feel that way

[shortster]

Everyone needs alone time.