Is nagging my husband about work being a bad wife or a clingy wife?

[missindiana93]

I cherish our time together and most woman don't give a shit about whether they see their spouse or not. But I do. I care way to much.

[Finchie40]

Nagging is never good , instead of nagging try to approach him differently on the subject without pointing fingers at him. Work alone is already stressful for a lot of people , so coming home to someone that is adding more stress isn’t a good thing , Your husband is probably already overwhelmed from his job , so he more than likely wants to come home to peace and not agony from his spouse. If you want to be a better wife and you want him to feel closer to you , stop nagging to him and support him instead , put yourself in his shoes and think how you would feel if you came home from a stressful day of work and he started nagging at you about it? Tell him you are sorry that you been nagging him and tell him why you were acting that way , and ask him what you can do for him so you don’t come off as a nagging wife , First step is stop talking about his work right when he gets home , if he wants to talk about it with you , let him start the conversation and just listen to what he is saying instead of making it about you. Find ways to help take that load off of his cheat when he gets home from work , for example if he sits down , just walk over to him and start rubbing his back or his feet , if he says what are you doing? Just say I appreciate you for all that you do and I want you to feel relaxed , if you wa t to be an even better wife , start rubbing his junk and give him some head or take him upstairs to bed and rock his world. When is guys’ feel loved and respected by our partner , it makes us feel safe and secure in our relationship, it makes us want to do more things for her to help take stress off of her back , Marriages and relationships do not have to be hard , if you choose them the same way you want them to choose you, sometimes it’s best for you to make the first move without nagging and complaining or pointing fingers , when a partner notices what you are doing for them , they will more than likely do the same for you

[AviatorTom]

Nagging is bad, and if you're nagging because he spends time at work and not with you, that's clingy.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love's tangled web! My aim here is to share a bit of wisdom from my romantic adventures. You're certainly not a bad wife for wanting time with your hubby! 💖 Prioritize open and loving communication, rather than "nagging" (which sounds so not 2023). Express your feelings without pressuring him, and maybe plan some fun quality time together. It's all about balance, so sprinkle that love fairy dust and create understanding moments! 🌟

[serious]

Being a little bit clingy is fine. However, must be under limits so if you are simply asking him to spend a bit more time with you that is not nagging.

[fish5505_87]

Not sure what you mean about nagging? I can imagine, lol. You sound like a caring and loving spouse! Without more info, just don't harp on any one thing too much, same goes the other way. Good Luck!

[WonderingManII]

Are you really nagging? Or are you just asking him to spend more time with you?

[missindiana93]

Both if anything.

[WonderingManII]

Does He know you are doing this out of love for Him?

[missindiana93]

No he sees me as annoying.

[WonderingManII]

Oh :( Maybe you could try looking up some tutorial videos on relationships. Maybe you could find something that would help you to try another approach.

[Ironic_Method]

People should spend time together AND apart. People need their own time, too.

[Sal_Monella]

It is being an undevoted, self centered wife.

[Anonymous]

It can be either, depends on some other factors.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nagging is never good.

[PaleDale]

No, shows you love him.