Why don’t FWBs treat you like a friend?

[Anonymous]

I’d been FWBs with “Ari” for about six months. She only contacted me when it was convenient for her (mainly for sex), so she wasn’t much of a friend. On Monday, she tells me that we should just be friends. Then yesterday, she posts a story of her and her boyfriend.

I’ve immediately unfollowed her.

[Anonymous]

The idea behind friends with benefits is you're supposed to be friends already who just decide to have sex, so your friendship stays the same. It's not just some random person you meet and decide to call it friends with benefits. Then all he will want is the sex.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

friends with benefits are often treated as booty calls. I don't know why you’re surprised

[Sebastian100]

friends with benefits just means having sex. Ofc she'll make you her friend if she has a boyfriend now

[In_Trance]

Smh... Stop it