Why do women become so insecure when you ask them what they bring to the table?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

Well if you been dating someone a while relationship should be two sided. Though there is less aggressive ways to ask the question because just like most men don’t want to be used. Most women don’t either.

What someone brings typically speaks for itself. If they’re demanding. One sided. Don’t our a lot of effort in. Are super entitled. They probably don’t have that much to offer and calling that out yeah makes them insecure especially if they been rejected by the type of men they want. Yet at the same time don’t want mennrhey don’t want feeling the same entitlement to them.

Some people offer different things. Some people aren’t compatible. Doesn’t make someone bad…. Just different. That’s part of dating.

[Spencer10]

Would you become insecure if a woman asked you how big your dick is before dating you?

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 Lol, no. Why would that make me insecure?

[Mariogirl09]

Because its like asking what makes you so special when there's 1000s of you walking around. It mostly looks like the man wants a whole to screw and nothing else

[Vegasrunner]

@Mariogirl09 Im confused making someone define their value makes it look like they want a hole to screw?

[Mariogirl09]

Basically... I mean why ask that question if you get to know her? You'd see what she brought to the table

[Vegasrunner]

@Mariogirl09 Good point. So you're saying they become insecure because they're afraid they may lose the man?

[Mariogirl09]

I doubt that. Again i think the question is more offensive then anything

[Vegasrunner]

@Mariogirl09 Its offensive for a man to want to know why he should spend his time with a woman?

[Mariogirl09]

Its offensive to ask what she brings to the table because all you think women are worth is just sex

[Vegasrunner]

@Mariogirl09 Of thats true then why ask them what they bring to the table?

[Mariogirl09]

They are being assholes

[Vegasrunner]

@Mariogirl09 Ah so the women are being assholes by not answering a simple question?

[Yannishka]

I don't know. I personally like the question. It shows that you're looking for longterm.

[Hagar88]

Because to them the man is supposed to bring everything to the table. If you look at any rom com or movie directed at women it usually about some ditzy girl who's working a low paid job or whos life is in shambles and she meets a tall handsome millionaire. How about 50 shades, 18 year old plain Jane virgin girl allows a charming handsome billionaire to do what ever he wants to her sexually. How about pretty woman where the hooker with the heart falls in love with billionaire Richard gere, not any of her other customers.

[WonderingManII]

hahahah, I would love to see that conversation.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii You dont qualify your women b4 spending time with them?

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner it does not apply to me.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii You're homosexexual? My apologies.

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner No, I just don't have any girls to date.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Based on your beliefs that makes sense.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Don't know, but they'd better bring big spuds to my table!!!