Why do women get triggered when they are asked what they bring to the table?

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Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

I’m very disappointed in people today.

I have things I could say. I have questions about the photo 😂

I have some reprimands to toss about

but I will not. I don’t have the energy to keep up with these “wars.”

I will say the success of mankind was a group effort of men. A man alone would fail.

This society brought before us is still flawed and leaves “every man for himself.”

It provided him with more advantages and extra time practicing with hands on in these fields, meanwhile he had physical advantage.

Women came to the arenas later after they rebelled against any form of captivity and being defined only sexually.

We all still have much more to go.

They are underdeveloped and like adult children who feel they need men and get all out of hand emotionally when arguments arise. It’s also, in part, due to the bio-chemical nature of her.

We can be equals in the societal realm, but in the physical Antony realm it would take the help of supplements and steroid intervention to try and increase to the range of men in physical ability and stamina.

Its very possible society and science will push form more bionic people with the inclusion of metaverse and such.

This would naturally mean nothing is dependent on human tissue and muscle mass, but on electronics and electrical energy. ⚡️

Women haven’t contributed a lot in the past due to the odds of the history standpoints.

With more advancement and even in today- women can reverse or start anew and contribute to the future.

Especially now with their inclusion in society.

Men wouldn’t have gotten today if it weren’t for their union and they wouldn’t have gotten to this point if it weren’t for the hetero females who bore them back in the day,

so I guess both genders will live with a sort of distaste-

women for being weakest of the two species

and men for being borne from them.

Now we can move on and so forth.

Just as America was advanced from other countries to hands on industrialization, so were men, advanced in society, compared to the women.

Women are like Japan and Dubai.

They are coming and advancing no longer left in the dark ages, and soon gender wars will cease.

Everyone who partook in this barbaric primitive child play of points fingers will be forgotten.

People can be asexual or gender neutral. Either gender can bear and contribute to the welfare of their country.

Those who degrade anyone just for the mere want, to feel empowered will be seen in my eyes as, immature.

I won’t say terrible things-

I speak the truth.

There is no reason for any man or woman to share distaste or unsatisfactory regards to the other gender.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

WHY WOULD YOU ASK US THAT?

Jersey2 · Accepted Answer

I found my wife before internet apps. Back then we just bumped into people in our social circle and if we clicked even a little we dated for fun really. She clicked with me but she didn’t care for me but that didn’t stop me, it was a challenge actually.

Today it seems very criteria based like reviewing résumé’s/CVs. It seems dry, full of analytical critique and exhausting for both sexes. I had potential (for success) and I know my now wife’s friends told her that. We just kept dating even though I had nothing and neither did she and even though I moved away and we dated long distance for quite a while. It worked out great for us as we have had a great life, kids and she picked a winner that gave her everything without complex criteria although I think (many not nearly all) women have a sense for potential.

But many women choose poorly looking at financials mainly, or compliments and fun mainly, or other nonsense but not a truly well balanced view mixed with an understanding that it may not work out financially but if it doesn’t they have a good partner in other ways.

I think a combination of things are responsible for the current dating mess that I see through people I know. Internet dating is surely a key one as it has reduced dating to Amazon. com like shopping sans the reviews. For women it has inundated them with choices, many of which are false choices as sex if the only goal for many men. It also inflates the woman’s ego and drives up her criteria not realizing the top tier of men who will gladly accept sex have many options as well and won’t be choosing her for a strong longterm relationship. The remaining bunch of guys gladly or with resentment take the table scraps or become incels. In the end, not many seem to find happiness.

Such a low birth rate due to the many factors affecting mating today will have the Darwinian effect of culling out bad traits. Those traits may fall into the area of sexual tastes, mate selection instincts, anything that is adverse to continuing the species through offspring. It’s hard to watch but the species will be stronger once this social change culls out those who don’t have traits for creating new healthy generations.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Most women don’t because most women aren’t the problem. It’s feminists and even the extreme of ultra traditionalists as well as women who want best or both worlds.

One sided women who are very narcissistic and think they’re a little princesses. Daddy and mommy never told her no.

She feels entitled. She wants a man to provide and do everything for her but she has nothing to offer in return really.

Some might offer a little bit. But it’s not near as much as what she expects a man to have to put in.

HollyK21 · Answer

For the women that do get triggered, it seems almost defensive in nature but it can also depend on how they were asked.

ShellyB · Answer

Asking somebody "what do you bring to the table" is pretty weird in the context of a relationship in my opinion. Like if you don't know what they "bring to the table" why are you even talking w them? And asking the question kind of implies that you think the answer it they don't bring anything to the table. I have never asked a guy "what do you bring to the table" I either know or I don't, and I would be confused (not in a good way) if a guy asked me that question, which by the way nobody ever has. JMO!

Anonymous · Answer

Just go on any dating app and read the women's profiles.

Most of them say "I want this, this and this etc." and they list zero about what they have to offer except to say that they want a real man who has his life together. If you read the men's profiles most are the opposite. They list what they have to offer in a relationship and she just lists what she wants.

It shows how desperate some guys are for pussy that they are desperately trying to get into relationships with women who are basically just a drain on him if you look at it from an outsider's perspective.

Women know this and it's a touchy issue.

Anemone978 · Answer

The only women who get triggered are women who have nothing to offer... Other than that look at the comment section of what men think we "bring to the table" or what they think, we think "we bring to the table"... it pretty funny actually...

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Another cliché and obvious question.

They get mad because they don't bring anything to the table, have shitty majors like psychology or philosophy, or survive using exhibitionism.

I study an elite career in a good university and I would never marry a woman who has a lower salary than mine, since I am not going to support any woman.

SaoirseS · Answer

I didn't know they did. The only time I've ever seen this question asked is broadly on the internet. In real life with a real person, I can't imagine anyone (especially a guy who asked me out in the first place) asking this.

Should I report you for trolling? Lol

BlackBeauty90 · Answer

@coachtanthony - Why do men run away like whipped dogs when they're asked what they can bring to the table? Now that's the question, they cry like babies about not being able to find a decent woman but... they scared of life.  As for why do women get triggered. Sluts, whores, prositute wannabes, etc. get triggered Decent women don't because they know what they bring to the table. Respect, etc. Problem is in today's society less & less men know what a decent woman is.

dovendyret · Answer

Do people seriously ask each other that?

If anyone would ask me that, I'd be confused asf. Dating is where you find out if you're compatible with each other & what you bring out in each other, which is why I'm on the date, to figure that out.

What to people that "have something to bring to the table" answer to that question? What would you reply to it? I don't even know if I bring anything to the table, is it about finances? Material possessions? Status?

msmissydc · Answer

In a relationship if someone would ask me that, I would guess they are not INTO me but try to get something FROM me. So I would get 'triggered' in a way of WTF does he want from me if not me as a person?
Why does someone need to bring something into a relationship beside beeing themselves? Do I understand relationships wrong? I thought you are supposed to be with someone you like and love and not trying to find a buisness partner.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

Pretty sure men will get triggered when asked that as well. It's just a human kneejerk reaction to a question that seems like it's asking to be convinced when really the asker already has their opinion and it won't change.

Finchie40 · Answer

Cuz those women know they have nothing to offer , truth hurts , they were raised thinking they were supposed To be taken care of like a princess and that a man is supposed to do we he has to do to take care of her and work his ass off to provide for her without her having to lift a finger , A relationship needs to be a team not one sided , if she is a stay at home wife her responsibilities are taking care of the home and the kids while her husband is at work , when he comes home from work he should jump in and contribute to other other things that need to be done around the house and help with the kids not just plop his ass down and do nothing , if she works then it’s both their responsibility to take care of the house and kids , all in all you should work as a team not against each other , It’s ok to have a relaxing day but you should never hold your partner accountable for not doing something unless they don’t do nothing

purplepoppy · Answer

I think it's the directness of the question that's the issue. I've no qualms with guys asking lots of probing questions to assess compatibility but I don't want to sell myself answering a single question.

I'm willing to put feet in the air, I won't burn the dinner, and you won't be embarrassed to be seen with me. I think that covers 90% of what guys want.

Why do women get triggered when they are asked what they bring to the table?

HighValue · Answer

Because they know that they don't bring nearly as much value to a relationship as most men do. It makes them angry.

Try this, create two dating profiles the same, except on one have $38,000 for your income (the average income in the USA) and on the other, put $70,000 for income and see how much more interest you get. Women very much do want to know what a man has to 9ffer/bring, and that is why on a date one of the very first things most women ask is what you do for a living. Not hobbies, interests, values/morals, not if you want to raise a family, etc. It is almost always what you do for a living (how much money you make).

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

It forces them to recognize that they’re not as oppressed as they want us to believe. Despite women’s liberation and the sexual revolution, ours is still a society that generally requires men to meet women’s expectations; not the other way around. Rather than changing who they are and how they behave to meet our standards, they tell us our standards are wrong, and that we’re “toxic” for applying them. They tell us what we SHOULD value about them so that they have inherent value without having to do or be anything special.
On some level, they know that’s selfish and hypocritical. That question tells them that the asker knows what they know. All scammers get testy when the jig is up.

Cassie88 · Answer

People in general, both males and females, generally don't like crashing into the truth head on if that truth in any way is to their disadvantage, or makes them look bad. The answer is rather obvious; they get triggered because they have nothing at all to "bring to the table", and they damn well know it.

Vegasrunner · Answer

The answer to this is pretty obvious it's just that in today's society people are uncomfortable saying unflattering truths about women. Women get triggered because deep down everyone knows there value us their sexuality. Taking sex off the table would instantly lower a women's value, however woman want to believe they are valued for more so when you ask them what they bring to the table and they can't name sex, they default to an emotional response. What's understood doesn't need to be said, and it's understood that women's primary agency is beauty and their value is sex.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

It's just a question. It doesn't really reveal much. Sure, if you can answer it truthfully then it can help, but there's no reliable way to know without getting to know someone. Guys could give a better answer to this question because it's more about what they do and what all they have achieved. I don't care that much about what women do, although it's good you can earn money. It's more about who you are as a person when it comes to what I'm looking for. That means it would take me more time to answer the question. Still, if women really think about the question and reflect ahead of time then you won't be so caught off guard and offended because you will have an answer.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Because it's a dumb question.

It's a relationship, not a business transaction.

It's not some presentation where i have to explain my worth or potential value to someone.

I'd never ask a man that.

Date and get to know each other.

.. But I look at who the person actually is instead of what they can "bring" to me.

Graci_e · Answer

I don’t see myself as a feminist and I feel like I’m pretty fair, but if someone said that it would piss me off. Not because I think girls bring more but because I can’t fathom the stupidity you must have to question what girls bring to the table. It’s arrogant and selfish.

LiamJHayden · Answer

For those who do, part of society has convinced them that all they need to do is look passable in order to be treated like a princess. Asking for anything beyond that is considered an insult.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

It’s a question designed to put someone on the defensive, much like it would feel if guys are asked.

Minahh · Answer

Men get triggered more🤔 Feminine energy is literally about flow, masculinity is about action. These men are just crybabies looking for a momma to raise them.

Crmolon · Answer

Part of me wants to answer this by drawing light on stereotypes. Women have been pigeon holed their whole lives to think as women we serve men aka take care of the house and kids. We are branching out of that now, but women always fear those traditional expectations will be cast upon them going forward. Maybe that helps, I don't know.

msc545 · Answer

Because other than sex they bring nothing to the table and don't want to admit that.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Because most of them just bring ran through mediocre hot dog down a hallway honestly your hand would be better poon

Blackcupcake · Answer

they do? I think that strictly depends on how they’re asked, and many times it is a dumbfounded tone because it is dudes with nothing to offer, asking them, what they have to offer… lol

worldscolide · Answer

It's basically that they refuse to believe that they bring nothing to the table. Not all women are like this, but the ones that get triggered definitely are.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason men do. I know, I asked that question once on here.

Confusedashell123 · Answer

Like all questions it depends on how it is asked.

what do you bring to the table - sounds like you’re in a job interview

What characteristics do you have that would make you a good partner or a great match for me - slightly more appropriate in the dating context

im more for finding out about a man through his actions anyway though because anyone can lie or make up elaborate stories when faced with a direct question

Guardian45 · Answer

I don't know. But if SHE is at the table, I'm leaving!

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

Because his eyes work and he can clearly see it’s lasagna tonight.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because the ones that get triggered know deep down they don't bring anything to the table. I'm a quality guy. And all I ask from my partner is effort. I don't care what she has, only what she's willing to give.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Not all women do! As for why the women that DO get triggered, I’m not sure, perhaps because it sounds more like a business negation rather than a date-night question?

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never asked that, to anybody... not sure why anybody would

boobliker · Answer

you should always have something in mind we men also get asked that too! it's called being prepared for the meeting.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I don't think I'd get triggered, just kind of confused as to why it was asked, since it is something that should be discovered over time, not through a question, like we're having a job interview or something.

Sasha0426 · Answer

If I’m being honest, I have literally nothing to offer. It’s why I wouldn’t make a good partner.

In_Trance · Answer

The only people who get triggered when they are asked what they bring to the table are people who bring nothing to the table.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Because it suggests a really arrogant guy who thinks he has the right to dictate dating terms to girls

RavVid · Answer

In the pic she is an older women who no longer has youth to bring. Of course she is going get mad at being reminded she has nothing to bring except bad temper.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Once upon a time they used to bring processed prepared food which was made of wheat , barely etc. Since we already have a table she brings the table cloth/cover 🙃. There is a deeper meaning 😇

AngryCarl2 · Answer

The only thing a woman needs to bring to the table is beer and sandwiches.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I don't know people will be people and the only ones I've ever seen asked this question are usually feminists and well we already how they react to stuff.

TrueConfection · Answer

I think some women enjoy being triggered. I would find that question a tad too blunt myself and likely walk away. It just sounds arrogant.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol cause to the ones who get triggered they know it's not a damn THING 🤣 😂

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Because the answer is usually nothing of particular interest. If nothing else at least bring s good attitude and eagerness to please. Even that seems to be woefully rare nowadays.

jshm2 · Answer

Because you are asking them to quantify what their partner doesn't.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

When you live a life of privilege, being treated fairly feels oppressive,

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Because I made her carry in all the grocery bags in one trip! Lol really women are never satisfied. It serves as an awesome influence, but sometimes a crazy indulgence.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because deep down they know that sex and youth are all they really have. Once they have parties away their youth, sex is all that's left, which is not enough to keep a man of any value.

TheSimFans · Answer

Some of them only get triggered when they have nothing to have.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

The karen attitude comes out of them when you ask them that question.

Chthou95 · Answer

Because a lot know deep down that sex is all they really have to offer. But much is not expected from women anyway

Anonymous · Answer

I bring the table ✌️

OddBeMe · Answer

What women?  That pics been in more right wing memes than Obummer.

Anonymous · Answer

Basically sex is mostly what they can offer and someone that cares for you on an emotional level, men usually do everything else on their own

Anonymous · Answer

Usually because they know they don’t bring anything

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

Feeling like they being unmined.

suzzieQ · Answer

the same reason men do

Pete671 · Answer

Shouldn't need to ask imho,

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