Why are women still shamed for not wanting kids in 2026?

[Imjustagirl1520]

[Anonymous]

Women’s biological purpose is to bring children into the world and care and nurture them. If you can’t do that as a woman, what the use? Women have been brainwashed to suck ratchet criminal (and corporate) c*ck. Their priorities are absolutely cooked. They avoid good men that could father their children and avoid the responsibilities and duties of motherhood and being a wife. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.

Stop giving into all the lies and propaganda. The system perpetuates this nonsense “ohh! it’s ok to not want kids until you’re 40!” which is too late btw… they want a bunch of compliant worker bees that make them all the money and the continue to pay less and less relative to inflation, and that applies to men too.

Think about it. Women used to stay home while men could support a family on ONE salary. That’s not really a thing anymore. And if it’s all relative, what changed? Men’s (relative) salaries were essentially cut in half and women entered the workforce, and now you need to couple up and BOTH work just to have LESS of what people used to have before. Because if you BOTH have to work just to survive, how the HELL do you have kids?

[Imjustagirl1520]

”anonymous” and why aren't you a soldier in war rn then? what other use are u good for? we can provide for ourselves, go fight in a war or smth be useful

[Opinion Owner]

Why do females always want to “send men to fight a war” whenever this type of argument comes up? It’s disgusting.

[Imjustagirl1520]

The same way you want us to be incubators and slaves for men. Yeah not so fun is it.

[Opinion Owner]

Slaves how? You literally bring life into the world and men were traditionally the ones that protected women from carrying the burden of worldly responsibilities, and so as a parental unit, the children could be raised PROPERLY. Not in daycare under the supervision of sickos. We gave you and a family protection in general. And now all I hear from what you’re saying is essentially “go die.”

This is exactly the problem.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Let me guess, you also think women should be housewives and clean and cook in the house? that is a slave by the way. Men haven't protected us from shit. Yeah because not every woman wants that, if u want that, fine go find one yourself, but you can't tell anyone else what they should do with their lives.

[Opinion Owner]

You will not win this argument and you will find out for yourself one day. Tell me, why are you so eager to just go and work and “take care of yourself?” What does it prove? It freaking sucks being alone and just going to work for nothing. Once you have bills to pay, and inevitably credit cards to pay off, you thinking you’re making all this money for yourself and you can conquer the world, until you realize how crippling all these expenses are, especially without a stable partner.

A man could essentially rid all of this stress from your shoulders and you could actually live in the delulu land you THINK you’re in now, but you’ll see. Work sucks. I’d rather stay home and cook and clean personally if I didn’t have to ever worry about money? Hell yeah I would.

[Imjustagirl1520]

What will i find out one day exactly?
It makes me feel like im doing something for myself in the world, that i can take care of myself and im free without any ties to a man.
It sucks for YOU. Not for everyone else.

Then find a billionare woman who wants to take care of u then?

You see how you said that YOU wanted to be a househusband and I (ME) said i dont want to, realise how we’re DIFFERENT, because everyone is different from eachother, what you want isn't what i want and vice versa.

[MikeMcMansion]

For starters, ma’am you are a KID!

[MikeMcMansion]

You are arguing with a child bro

[Opinion Owner]

@MikeMcMansion exactly why I stopped saying anything.

[Imjustagirl1520]

And? what does me being a kid have to do with anything?

[Berethor]

Little girls don't understand why motherhoood is a good thing and not a bad thing.

[Imjustagirl1520]

For some its good, not for me tho. Im educated on what happens to the body and mind while pregnant and its not something i wanna participate in. And you’re both literally men so u have no right in telling me how i should feel about motherhood.

[Opinion Owner]

Well then don’t be surprised if all men want to do is pass you around for the short term, despite your feelings to want to be with someone if you happen to catch them. Part of that deal for men is “is she available, kind and nurturing and going to be a good mother for my children?” I really kind of think this “education” you speak of is has really become the downfall of women and what will ultimately be humanity in general. Western birth rates are in rapid decline. It is separating women from their biological function that keeps our species going. You say it’s “not right for you,” but the problem is, the vast majority of young women in their most prime years are showing the same attitudes towards the issue. They are being gaslit by the whole system, which you are probably not all that aware of in how it functions.

When you actually see how this is all playing out in real time, it’s really quite scary and sad. Concerning. Your attitude is concerning. You aren’t showing any concern or care for the needs of men.

[Imjustagirl1520]

you do realise there's also men who dont want kids and would date a woman who doesn't want to have kids, right?
Please dont ever have kids. They will grow up in hell.

[Opinion Owner]

If I have kids, it will be a healthy mother and father parental dynamic based around the idea of a nuclear family, as close as we can get to that within reason. It’s something very hard to do these days. And the kids will be much better for it actually. Because a lot of kids don’t have a healthy 2 parent household. And THAT is growing up in hell. I don’t think you have a clue what you are talking about tbh.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Ur sperm is gonna decline soon by the way, gotta hurry up having kids then.

[Kingofkings1992]

@imjustagirl1520 being a kid means that your brain is not fully developed, thus you don't have much capacity to understand the world around you

[Imjustagirl1520]

Okay. So what am i not understanding in this conversation because im a kid, according to you.

[Kingofkings1992]

You don't understand anything. You're just a baby in the woods

[Imjustagirl1520]

What am i doing wrong in this conversation? If you can't provide at least one thing im doing wrong because im young, you just sound stupid

[Kingofkings1992]

Sure kid. You can think that. I attach zero importance to your opinion on anything lol

[Imjustagirl1520]

So you’re just a hypocrite? You can't say A but refuse to say B it makes no sense. Have you ever had a conversation ever? Even a young child like me knows this.

[Brittanyroseee]

I hate men lol

[Brittanyroseee]

I found my calling!!! Its to save animals!! Im a vet tech and im never abandoning that!

[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor motherhood is not good for everyone

[ohsheeT]

I don't think that they are ashamed of it. I think people try to make them feel guilty and that's just wrong. It's up to that person and her spouse. If they want to have children , but you can't not force somebody to have children , it's the wrong thing to do

Right now, the way our world is headed. Why in the world would anybody want kids if they have a child and something was to happen in this world? Now, you not only have to protect yourself, but you have to protect the child, and if something happens to you who's going to take care of the child. So people that are deciding not to have children right now. Are pretty smart people as far as i'm concerned and they're having children for their right reasons when they do not because somebody else wants them to or makes them feel guilty

[Simslover92]

I wasn't aware that women are being shamed for not wanting kids in 2026. I know that a lot of people still maybe push for it but being shamed for not wanting kids I have not personally encountered yet.

[katiesmuff]

Wasn't aware that there was any huge push for women to have more kids. The world is incapable of feeding what is on it now!

[ammar12343]

As a species, procreation is just a part of our evolutionary duty. Yes, we’re evolved, but deviations outside of evolutionary norms will always be met with a side eye. Typically, women who choose not to have kids carry traits that men are not attracted to. Men are attracted to nurturing and feminine women just as women are attracted to masculine and ambitious men. When a woman opts out of having kids, that stands to be contrary to that archetype. Most people choosing to not have kids today are self centered. A woman who chooses herself over duty speaks a lot to a man who potentially wants to invest himself into a relationship with them. When I see my wife taking care of my son and being soft with him, it activates my lizard brain. It just so pleasant and attractive.

I know you’re quick with the responses, and want to prove a point, but no one person can change this perception. It’s biologically hardwired into us.

[Brittanyroseee]

Its not a duty its a choice HAHA

[Brittanyroseee]

Oh lord a breeder

[Brittanyroseee]

Not all men want kids😂😂😂😂

[Brittanyroseee]

Its not self centered to not have kids.. did u know a lot of people have kids and are still selfish?

[Brittanyroseee]

Lots of people have kids and abuse them lol

[Brittanyroseee]

What is wrong with choosing ourselves? Its our life

[Brittanyroseee]

Its not a requirement to have kids..

[ammar12343]

I think you’re conflating choice and nature. It is a choice and I’m not arguing that. But biology doesn’t care about your feelings on the matter. Species that don’t reproduce disappear. That’s not an opinion, it’s a pattern repeated across millions of years and millions of species. You can absolutely choose not to have kids, but evolution didn’t build you with that expectation in mind. I’m giving you a logical answer.

You have a lot of passion and you’re very young. And what I say next is not condescension. Being disagreeable and passionate can be a super power if it’s channeled through appropriate social measures. If you care about this, then read literature on this, obsess with it, learn how statistical testing and inference works. Refine your knowledge and take objection as an opportunity to learn. Then you can actually make a difference and influence people.

Your current trajectory is becoming a female incel. You should pivot while you’re still young with endless potential. Or maybe you just like arguing. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Brittanyroseee]

I dont care about biology i live my life how i want to sir

[Brittanyroseee]

Ok? I dont live my life based on animalistic traits

[Brittanyroseee]

There are 8 billion on this planet. Relax! Put that cock away

[Brittanyroseee]

Oh im 28 i have a career that is my calling.

[Brittanyroseee]

Its a choice to have kids, not a duty, not a requirement.

[Brittanyroseee]

Biology is not “law”

[Brittanyroseee]

There are 8 billion people on this planet.. bye

[Brittanyroseee]

And men who judge women for not having kids are male incels HAHA

[Brittanyroseee]

Dude, look, im gonna say something

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone should have kids. So many people have kids and abuse them, neglect them, even kill them. So?

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone needs to have kids. Too many people have kids and are bad parents.

[Brittanyroseee]

Not all women are “nurturing” either. I have 0 motherly instinct when it comes towards a crying infant or toddler. That shit would overstimulate me to the max if anything. Im not the type to be “nurturing” and put up with that BS

[Brittanyroseee]

Im just being honest it takes a lot to raise a child. A lot. It takes mental peace and emotional wellbeing. Its not for everyone.

[Brittanyroseee]

Anyone can have sexual intercourse, penis into vagina, bust a nut and birth a baby. It takes a lot to actually raise the child, be a role model, and shape the child into a proper individual for society. Does this make any sense to you? Anyone can have sex and have a baby. Mentally retarded people have kids, drug addicts have kids, drunks have kids, pedos have kids. And?

[ammar12343]

Aren’t you an aggressive one… I can’t say I hate that, but I think the actual discussion I tried to start is over your head lol

[Brittanyroseee]

No its not im responding to what you said. Having a child takes a lot of work. Anyone can have sexual intercourse and birth a baby.

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone should have kids. A lot of people have kids and abuse them and dont take care of them.

[Brittanyroseee]

Biology does not care about if the person is fit enough to raise the child

[Brittanyroseee]

Do you not get what im saying?

[Brittanyroseee]

It takes a lot to actually raise a child. Anyone can have sex, penis into vagina, bust a nut and birth a baby. It takes a lot to actually be a good parent, and shape the child into a good citizen.

[ammar12343]

I’m more curious to know how many words per minute you type.

[Brittanyroseee]

Listen to what im saying. Biology does not care if the parents are fit enough.

[Brittanyroseee]

Anyone can put a penis into a vagina bust a nut and birth a baby but it takes actual responsibility, and desire to raise the child

[Brittanyroseee]

There are pregnant homeless women. And? Not everyone needs to be procreating and having babies!!!

[Brittanyroseee]

Stay ignorant. Have a good one

[ammar12343]

I’m aroused in the oddest way rn. Thanks for that

[Brittanyroseee]

Stay ignorant.

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone needs to procreate as there are tons of abused neglected kids and terrible parents thanks

[Brittanyroseee]

Biology does not care if the kid will be raised correctly and loved. HAHA

[ammar12343]

You’re making me want to breed you.

[Brittanyroseee]

Gross dude

[ammar12343]

🤷🏻‍♂️

[Brittanyroseee]

Nasty. Troll

[ammar12343]

I can get nastier

[Master_Debator]

Don't forget the men too... they get shamed too. I honestly don't blame people for not wanting to. They're expensive and you're no longer alowed to spank them when they're bad.

They're not even really yours outside of being your genetics. They belong to the state. They take your kids and indocternate them all day while you slave away and are expected to pump more and more money into them, into making you pay more taxes, and all while expecting you to pay more for rent and food.

Basically give up on being happy... kids was the end of you. I think this is even more true for males. We dudes can't exactly run away from a relationship, collect child support and other social welfare benefits, and flick the bean and play with our tits all day while the kids are at school.

[RiseofArtemis]

Because in a functioning society every woman would have two children in order to keep the population number stable. Or else the government has to constantly import people from countries, who may very likely have a culture that's completely against or opposite to yours. And would in the long run cause massive issues and severe conflicts. Which some countries are already facing with their immigrants.

In short, you do not have a choice. Much like anything else in life you don't have a choice to do but have to.

[ProbablyClueless]

I think it'll probably make a lot more sense after you've spent a few years working a job. Or even better; a "career." Any time you make a decision, there's a trade-off. In this case, the trade these women are making is not having kids so they can allegedly do things like travel and pursue a career. The problem is that usually, neither of those things actually happen.

Careers and the working world demonstrably make people absolutely miserable and causes health to go to shit. The women don't get paid enough and don't have enough free time to go travel and do other shit.

So, the women make a choice to not have kids without getting the reward they're promised. Why be miserable?

[Brittanyroseee]

U can be miserable with kids too

[Brittanyroseee]

Lots of women have kids too and are unhappy

[Brittanyroseee]

I have had my career for 10 years and its my calling i dont think changing diapers is

[Brittanyroseee]

at least with a career u get paid

[ProbablyClueless]

@Brittanyroseee I'm glad it has worked out for you! I have a wonderful and fulfilling career too. Most people aren't as fortunate as we are though. And I think it would be a mistake to tell people that our paths are the norm.

[Brittanyroseee]

And not everyone who has kids and is married is happy!

[4ngelic]

i don't think women are shamed for it, that was only true in like the 70s and earlier. childfree women is pretty normal at this point, personally i know mulitple older women who never had children including in my own family. the only people who are shaming women for that are like very conservative trad religious people and some flavors of manosphere men.

[OneViewpoint]

I have no idea other than this White Replacement Theory bullshit being peddled by our Reich Wing racists. Personally I'm not gonna judge any man or woman for deciding to not have kids. I think there is beaucoup evidence that a lot more people should have made that decision judging by the number of dysfunctional people running around these days. That decision is everyone's fundamental right and no one else's business.

[RavVid]

Well it is your biological job and from a societal view it is necessary for you to do so.

Depends on if you are the type of person that lets the team down or not.

From my view I don't want to pay for your or any any other woman's sprogs, so I am happy for you not to.

[Anonymous]

Maybe due to deeply embedded patriarchal, religious, and cultural norms that equate femininity with motherhood. This stigma persists as a tool to uphold mandatory motherhood, where a woman’s worth is measured by her ability to reproduce and serve domestic roles.

[Imjustagirl1520]

its sad we haven't let those go yet

[Opinion Owner]

Agree

[Berethor]

Traditional people don't care about the year, not wanting kids is immature and selfish.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/I_Want_Grandkids

[Imjustagirl1520]

your sperm isn't gonna be good forever, hurry up

[Berethor]

Girl how you have so much knowledge about men's fertility? I am impressed.

www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/.../age-and-fertility

[Imjustagirl1520]

I don't know because i listen in school? this is literally common sense bro…

[MikeMcMansion]

Absolutely correct. I think living for only yourself is empty, only sociopaths/psychopaths would be happy living in complete selfishness. However there are kings and billionaires obsessed with legacy, like that king who’s genes some how prevented hin from having a son, so he kept killing his wives because of the divorce laws of the time, Henry the 8th I believe. Anyways feminists love to use those examples, but they are the exceptions to the rule. Legacy is not inherently bad, it leans more towards being inherently good - depending on the quality of your morals and how you lived and passed them down to your kids.

[Berethor]

Most people nowadays don't care if they have a son of a daughter for their legacy.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Heir_Club_for_Men

[MikeMcMansion]

I know…narcissism and antihuman propaganda is put through minds in full force today

[Berethor]

In china they was killing female babies because they wanted only a male baby.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_infanticide_in_China

[Imjustagirl1520]

Incel meeting is right here : @Berethor and @MikeMcMansion who is more of an incel?

[MikeMcMansion]

@berethor Do you know how you can you filter only seeing questions only from 18+ people?

[Imjustagirl1520]

aw too scared of me? but no that guy is a pedophile, you should see when he was proud of getting a minors number.

[Berethor]

She 19, not a minor, and it's her right to follow me, the only minor here is you.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Woww what a difference. You’re still disgusting. Your sperm is probably old by now and you won't have any healthy kids.

[Hagar88]

Who is shaming them? You can only feel shamed if your doing something shameful

[Imjustagirl1520]

huh?

[Miristheiss]

It is unbiblical and against nature.

Recreational, non marriage sex and using drugs to stop pregnancy.

That is mankind's rebellion, not the way we naturally are.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Incel as always🥱

[Brittanyroseee]

Oh lord a breeder

[Brittanyroseee]

Its unbiblical to have kids you dont want or can't afford

[capriVib]

I haven't dealt with that personally, but I've seen plenty of people get grilled about why they're not married. You can just tell those people, Go have a kid on my behalf. It's irrational to bring a kid into this world.

[guywithafetish]

who cares! there are too many people in this world anyway plus without being able to punish your children in any way because that would be child abuse, every kid today is a little piece of shit brat

[aceleon]

İ DUNNO? maybe because humans are manipulative son of the bitches who tries to shame people into bending to their will?

[Nikki1989]

I wasn't aware this was happening at all. The only time I ever hear it is on here.

Funny that!

[DextroShade]

Because most of them are good for little else. Most women are a net drain on society so if they aren't producing more people they are less than worthless.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Do you have kids yet?

[DextroShade]

Yes, I have a wife and a child from her.

[Theunfadeable]

Is there a place where guys meet up and berate all the childless women? Everyone just yelling whooore over and over again 😆

[slatyb]

Women will be shamed no matter what they do. Ignore the haters.

[Anonymous]

Why are men still shamed for not wanting to pay for everything when it comes to women? I mean it’s 2026 right? Equality.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Literally no one is.

[jazzy34]

Because many men (society at large, really), still view women as nothing more than baby makers.

[Agape93]

Because half of humanity ties our worth to sex and having children.

[Anonymous]

No one is shaming them. Guys just wouldn't want to marry such a woman. And that's his perogative. No one said women have to like it. But like it or not, it's not changing.👍

[Imjustagirl1520]

ah yes cuz all guys want kids too!

[Opinion Owner]

It's not about the kids hun. I mean it is, but a symbol of a deeper problem. Would you be with a man who didn't want to take care if you? Who didn't tell you you're beautiful, etc., etc.. Well same thing with a man. A woman doesn't have to be willing to bear his children. But with that non-act she's telling him she not really committed to him. She's only with him up to a point. Would you be with a guy like that? No woman worth her salt would! And no guy that's worthwhile would marry a woman if she was unwilling to bear his kids (barring the obvious, like medically she couldn't or if it were medically unsafe to).
Now keep in mind I realize you're 16 so you're not an adult yet. But just because I post this, don't get it twisted. A woman should make sure a man is fully committed to her before having his children.

[Imjustagirl1520]

I can take care of myself thanks. What? In what world does taking care of your partner have to do with having children? You do realise having kids in todays economy and society is more than just committment. Its incredibly dangerous and expensive, and also selfish. A woman not wanting kids doesn't make her any less committed to a man than one who wants kids.

[Opinion Owner]

Hun. You're 16. If you could take care of yourself the law wouldn't call you a MINOR. This is NOT a debate. You asked a question, I answered it. You don't have to take what I say, life will teach you it all the same.👍
As far as a woman having kids go. You don't comprehend the best. I said from the beginning, re-read if you like, "No one said women have to like it but it's not changing." You can find a guy who will marry you that is OK with a woman not bearing his children. But think about it for minute. You just described a man that doesn't want to be a father. That speaks volumes about him doesn't it.

[Imjustagirl1520]

I can still take care of myself i dont need some man to call me beautiful.
What? Why would i want to be with a man that wants to be a father if i dont want kids?

[Opinion Owner]

Hun, I don't care what you do.😆👍 have a nice day.🙂

[Jersey2]

It is your primary role in the species. Your whole body is set up for that. Take your DNA and get out of the gene pool then.

[LiamJHayden]

Someone is always going to side eye whatever you do no matter what it is. Learn to ignore them and do what is best for you.

[Rangers]

Do yourself a favor and stay off Twitter, it's not real life, just morons who yell the loudest

[Anonymous]

Liberal feminism. They cause a lot of problems. It’s why it’s so hard for men to get in relationships. Women are too picky and shallow

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yeah because now we have a choice and dont have to settle for the bare minimum.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not settling for low, the modern woman competes for the top 5% male

[Imjustagirl1520]

Seems like a problem on the mens part. Be better, idiots.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not us. We all can’t be 6ft tall, be rich, have athletic builds.

[Opinion Owner]

So it leans towards women to be blamed on the disconnect

[Imjustagirl1520]

can't do anything about height. Work for your money. Go to the gym. Stop giving excuses.

[Imjustagirl1520]

No. You can't just expect women to like you just because you’re you. You have to give something. Would u ever date a fat girl? an ugly girl? no exactly.

[Opinion Owner]

I feel conservative women are real. Not entitled like liberal feminists

[Imjustagirl1520]

Huh?

[WilliamStormsReturn]

because its naughty

individual feminist choice

[Staximus]

I don't know, it's better than having a bunch of fatherless bastards

[Anonymous]

Because Men have always been shamed not just by Women but society for not being Confident enough and thats not going to change anytime soon.

[Imjustagirl1520]

dude what? how does these two things relate to eachother?

[Opinion Owner]

They relate because both come from rigid gender expectations.
Women get shamed for not wanting kids because they’re expected to be mothers.
Men get shamed for not being confident because they’re expected to be dominant.

Different issue, same root cause — traditional gender roles.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Guess who made those up…

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Its a internet thing. Most people outside the internet don't care.

[Brittanyroseee]

I dont know but its creepy and weird

[MissSunshine2]

I wasn’t aware of this.

[jahaims]

Never heard anyone be shamed for that irl

[Imjustagirl1520]

because you’re a man.

[Theunfadeable]

😆😆😆😆

[LC75LC71]

You're not even an adult!

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yet I've already been shamed, weird huh

[Kingofkings1992]

@imjustagirl1520 no one is shaming a teenager for not procreating. Just stfu. You sound so stupid and naive

[Imjustagirl1520]

Oh but i have soooo

[LC75LC71]

Why are you replying to me? I didn't say shit. G'day

[Imjustagirl1520]

its obvious i wasn't responding to u

[DirtyOldMan777]

because feminism lied.

[beefcakebradybatson]

M-I-S-O-G-Y-N-Y !!!

[Randomguy28]

Exactly its individual choice

[DishLady]

Social Habit.

[Siggie2]

I'm not

[Kingofkings1992]

They're not

[Imjustagirl1520]

But we are.