Isn’t sad women don’t want to be moms anymore?

[Anonymous]

When you ask girls what they want to be with they older no one says ‘I want to be the best caring mother.’

How said is that? The best thing a girl can do and they just ignore their life goal. Sad 😞

I agree

I disagree

[Agape93]

That's not a life goal for most women, that's just a biological possibility. But what has society done to make it appealing? Wages suck, medical sucks, schooling sucks, mass shootings are common now, the kids rights are being legislated away before they're even born

[whirled_up_girl]

I don't want to be a mom, I had a fantastic mom but she gave up a lot to be that way. If I would have met the right guy and married maybe I would want that but I've found other way to find meaning in my life. I don't find it sad, especially when there ware 8 billion people in the world.

[NamerOfStars]

But it's NOT their life goal. Why do you think you should have the right to choose another person's desires?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep it is sad, I'm glad that the ones that do exist tho, they are gonna keep humanity alive

[CheeseMonster]

They can want to be moms without wanting to only be moms. If a girl says she wants to be a veterinarian or something when she grows up, that doesn't mean she doesn't want to be a mother. That just means she wants to be a veterinarian. Many veterinarians are parents.

[BarryLiverstone]

I disagree. How many boys say they want to be the best father possible?

[Asker]

It’s different.

[Asker]

To be the best dad you gave to work hard

[Asker]

God all te guys on here just take female sides on everything

[BarryLiverstone]

Right, being a parent is hard work. For the mom and the dad

[Asker]

A woman has it worse why se has to focus more on the child. Women are nurtures and raise children not men

[BarryLiverstone]

And I am on the side of God and families

[BarryLiverstone]

Children need good moms and dads to raise them

[Asker]

Yes but a good man provides security we have different roles agreed?

[BarryLiverstone]

Every marriage is a partnership. The roles are agreed by the people in the marriage. Both provide security and both work

[BarryLiverstone]

My brother is married with two kids. He has a job and so does his wife. He comes home after work and cooks. They both raise their two kids.

[Asker]

But I’d that ideal? If he wasn’t such a wimp he’d work so his wife no longer needs too

[BarryLiverstone]

I just said he works. Did you not read?

[SolitarySolace]

They don’t say that anymore because what comes wi try being a caring mother also comes being a caring wife and women are not. They use men to have kids and then eventually take his resources through no fault divorce.

[Anonymous]

90% of women around me have kids or plan on having kids.

[Anonymous]

Come to Florida. Almost Everyone in the dating pool after 22 has kids.

[SweetDripp]

I want to be a mom, just not right now.

[LordMadara]

Don't have kids as all my wasted efforts ended up in abortion. Without my consent
Maybe God didn't want me to be a father
Now I get sick to my stomach at people who go on and on about their kids
Makes me bitter but hey not everyone is gonna be able to be a parent
I'm glad though I don't have to worry about another mouth to feed as I'm not stable financially

[Redstang88]

Good with me, I hate kids

[LordMadara]

Agreed . . .
I hate kids so much that I end up in very emotionally draining arguments with my roommate as he constantly brings this baby mama and her 4 months old baby to our room , he doesn't get it that me I'm hurt by these visits as I don't have kids of my own maybe I'm bitter but
The living conditions for raising kids in my city aren't necessarily good either, that baby mama girl probably in her mid 20s has no source of income and always uses my flatmate for financial gains , our food is not safe from her but she has a boyfriend
Doesn't make sense to have kids in a dirty system of the modern world

[Anonymous]

No their choice