Why did my friend call me a redpill dudebro who belongs on the Whatever podcast?

I'm a guy posting from my friend's account because I don't have enough XPERs on my main to post it there

Anyways, I have a friend group with 2 girls. I'm extremely close to one of them because I've known her for 2 years, but I'm not close to the other girl since I've only known her for a few months and she seems to be very stand-off-ish with me. She doesn't like that I recorded videos of her dancing at a friend's flat while being extremely drunk. She thinks I behave in a hypocritical manner whenever I tell her to sit properly if her clothes ride up.

She got all stiff when I said that she's dressed up like we're going to a b***hel because she wore this slightly above the knee wrap dress for going to drink with some friends. One day, she was leaning down a little while talking to a friend and it showed some cleavage. I told her to straighten up and pointed out that I told her to cover up instead of shamelessly staring even though I'm a guy. She nodded and made a weird face, so I snapped and told her to stop being so woke and to lighten up. I further said that her unnecessarily uptight behaviour is the reason why I don't feel like being too close to her, and I'm more close with my other friend because she's way more relaxed with boundaries. She's not talking to me anymore, but I just wanted her to lighten up so that there are no inequalities in our friend group. She literally said I'm a redpill Andrew Tate, Dillon Danis type dudebro and I belong on the whatever podcast. Why did she say that when I only wanted her to lighten up?

Why did my friend call me a redpill dudebro who belongs on the Whatever podcast?
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