How do I get over a disturbing dream about my gym crush?

[Anonymous]

What the title says, basically. There’s this guy I’ve been seeing at the gym for months, he’s really attractive, and I kind of developed a small crush on him. At some point I even followed and texted him, but he never really kept the conversation going, so I left it alone.

But recently I had a dream about him that really messed with my head. In the dream, he actually started texting me back after I reached out. Then somehow the situation flipped cause I stopped replying, and he got really angry. Like, cussing me out, sending me pictures of other girls he was with, just being really aggressive and mean. It honestly shocked me to the core, even though it was just a dream.

Now I feel super uncomfortable. I can’t even look at him the same way at the gym anymore, even though in real life he hasn’t actually done anything.

I don’t know what to do, should I just ignore it and move on? How do I even do that?

[Jay-_-]

I'd say move on, not cause he's a bad person he's probably great but mainly because he didn't show interest, I know the feeling of just not wanting to socialize or you got him on a bad day or something maybe talk to him cause you dont really have enough information and if he tries to push you aside in person just take the hint and completely leave him alone.

[jazzy34]

Don’t take a dream too literally. I know that type of dream is hard to shake, but sometimes, a dream is just that. A dream. Our brain has a funny way of processing our emotions and information sometimes while we’re asleep.

[Anonymous]

You already moved on by not texting him anymore, so you don't need to do anything?

[Anonymous]

Talk to him or don't.