So I'm in the military, and the base isn't that big so you run into people often. I always go to the gym on base and this same guy who I'm attracted to goes as well. I was with someone for a while but he and I didn't work out for many reasons and this "gym crush" would always see me working out with this guy but it's been over for while now. Every time I wanna smile I end up looking just straight ahead with a "I'm on a mission for gains" face or I look down because I chicken out thinking that he will either think I just want the d or that im a gym slut who hops from one lifter to another. We took a physical fitness test together with a group and he sat right next to me out of all places, but of course I was to chicken to spark a convo, and he glances at me when I get food from the dining facility but I don't know if he just glances cuz he sees me all over base or because he might fight me a little attractivr. I do check him out a lot though. Do you think he notices? Should I just stop over thinking and just smile? Or should I just do squats and be like "hey this is kinda awkward but can you spot me? I mean I see you around a lot and I really wanna max today sooo yes?"
Daily gym goer with gym crush... Am I over thinking things?
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