- There is this guy at the gym I talked to for several months and I always thought he was interested but as of now I’m not sure. He used to always come over to start a conversation and would give me compliments. Always saying my hair looked nice and how tiny I am. He seemed interested in things I was doing and always asked about my weekend plans. He seemed like he would put feelers out there and maybe he gave up. I did tell him how the trainer got super creepy with me and ever since then he kinda stop interacting with me as much. I don’t want to say anything but It just kinda upsets me.
Is my gym crush still into me?
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Have you tried initiating conversation with him? Just a hi, ask what type of workout or how many sets he's doing that day... stuff like that.
He might have backed off because he didn't think you were interested. Or you mentioned how a trainer got creepy with you: he might have backed off so you won't think he's a creep too.
Next time you see him, just strike up a conversation with him and see how he acts towards you.
'it kinda upsets me'... well gee maybe you should have shown some interest. Blame yourself.
How often do you start the conversation with him?
We talk all the time at the gym he goes out of way to talk to me. I just noticed lately he doesn’t flirt as much. He gave me his number last week but hasn’t hit me up and is still friendly when we see each other
How often do you start the conversation with him?
I mean I’ll go over and talk to him here and there but he usually starts it. But we haven’t contacted by text/call