Friday night, I got wicked drunk with my friends. One of them stayed sober because she’s underage and the other one got wasted with me. I embarrassed myself twice around the guy I like and I don’t know if I’m overthinking what happened. The first incident was when I was rolling around on the floor laughing with my drunk friend. Our other friend had gone into the bathroom and the guy I like and his friend hear the commotion. They came over to check on us because they were worried we were alone and my friend came out of the bathroom. My other friend and I went back into the room and the guy I like asked my sober friend if we were drunk or buzzed and told her to make sure we drink a lot of water.
The second incident happened when I left to go to the bathroom. At this point, I had changed into my gym clothes (t-shirt, shorts, and a sports bra), but had taken off the t-shirt. I insisted that I was a big girl and didn’t need my friend to escort me to the bathroom. I walked out into the hallway and saw the guy I like. He asked me if I was okay and I said I was fine. When I got to the bathroom door, I realized I didn’t have a shirt on and stood there for a minute trying to decide if I should go back to get my shirt. I decided to just go into the bathroom because it was the fastest way to get away from him.
Late Saturday morning, I walked past him in the hallway and he was trying so hard to suppress a laugh. I said hi as we passed, but couldn’t even look him in the eye. Sunday morning, my sober friend and the guy I like were talking. He said: “So Friday night…” And she said: “Oh, God. Friday night. What do you remember?” He said: “I saw <my name> in a two piece!” She told him it was a sports bra. At the end of the conversation, he said he was just glad she was there to make sure we were alright.
Now it’s Tuesday and I’m still embarrassed. I can’t look him in the eye and have been avoiding him like plague. Do you think I’m over-worrying and that I shouldn’t be embarrassed? Does this incident feel more embarrassing to me than it should? Should I talk to him about it or is it better to not say anything?
The second incident happened when I left to go to the bathroom. At this point, I had changed into my gym clothes (t-shirt, shorts, and a sports bra), but had taken off the t-shirt. I insisted that I was a big girl and didn’t need my friend to escort me to the bathroom. I walked out into the hallway and saw the guy I like. He asked me if I was okay and I said I was fine. When I got to the bathroom door, I realized I didn’t have a shirt on and stood there for a minute trying to decide if I should go back to get my shirt. I decided to just go into the bathroom because it was the fastest way to get away from him.
Late Saturday morning, I walked past him in the hallway and he was trying so hard to suppress a laugh. I said hi as we passed, but couldn’t even look him in the eye. Sunday morning, my sober friend and the guy I like were talking. He said: “So Friday night…” And she said: “Oh, God. Friday night. What do you remember?” He said: “I saw <my name> in a two piece!” She told him it was a sports bra. At the end of the conversation, he said he was just glad she was there to make sure we were alright.
Now it’s Tuesday and I’m still embarrassed. I can’t look him in the eye and have been avoiding him like plague. Do you think I’m over-worrying and that I shouldn’t be embarrassed? Does this incident feel more embarrassing to me than it should? Should I talk to him about it or is it better to not say anything?
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