If a girl is her in early 20s and has already been in many relationships, is there something wrong with her?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

I think those types are definitely crazy

Definitely Yes

Most likely yes

No

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Bruh, 5 is barely anything before 20. High school "romances" barely last and kids move on after a few weeks/months. Kids get 4 years of this and it doesn't even count middle school.

Besides, why is this just girls that are the issue? Why are guys not being called out here too?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

I'm talking about real relationships not kids holding hands.

I'm mentioning girls because it's extremely rare for a guy in his early 20s to have dated that much, again I'm talking about real relationships.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

What do you qualify as "real relationships" before 20? That's borderline not realistic.

And what difference does it make if it's not realistic? It's not realistic for women either at that age but if it did happen then it could happen for men too and yet they are not being called out here.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

A real relationship to me is when you do all the stuff that adults do in a relationship, not just hanging around at a fast food after school.

It's way more realistic for girls, let's get real here. A 20 year old girl is much more in demand than a 20 year old guy, cmon.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So basically you are boiling it down to sex, because they sure aren't getting married very often. Dating as adults is still holding hands and going on dates so that's a wash.

It doesn't matter who "is in more demand". 5 partners is still 5 partners no matter who does it. You are just trying to shame and control women's sex lives by posting this question.

[Gedough]

Because it impacts girls differently to boys. Girls who are promiscuous exhibit bad behavior such as aggressiveness, drugs, bad parenting, alcohol, laziness, etc. Such girls have very low morals.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

*yawn* Sexist comment is sexist.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

No, not really.
You think adult relationships are just about sex? I'm talking about the emotional labor that comes with relationships.
It takes a toll, doesn't it?
They can live together, put themselves in situations that two 14 years olds don't experience.
It's just different.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Also I'm not trying to shame them about having sex at all.
It's just that these women, young women that I have seen, who claim to have been in lots of relationships, they... are just not fun to hang out with. They have lots of emotional problems.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

She was perhaps too blunt about it but there is definitely a strong correlation.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Also again I truly I have never seen a guy do the same thing, and be effected the same way, if I did I would have mentioned it.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Even puppy love comes with emotional labor and has an effect on both boys and girls. It helps develop what they do and dont want out of relationships so, again, it's not right to single out girls here

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Did you read my other replies?
And no middle school "relationships' don't teach you anything

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I guess you didn't have any middle school/high school relationships then. They teach you about fitting in and learning your comfort zones. Whats ok and not ok with you in a relationship.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Ehhhh it looked like it was just kids fooling around.
Not to brag but even back then I thought middle schoolers were idiots, I was already more mature. There is no way I would "date" anyone back then lol.
In high school it was better but still they were childish to a certain extent.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It's not as mature, sure, but honestly there are a lot of adults who aren't mature getting into relationships too so it's not too dissimilar

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Most of the time it is quite different.
The average 13 year old is way less immature than a immature 23 year old

[msc545]

There is maybe there isn't. There would need to be a lot more information than you've provided here.

[Anonymous]

"I'm a virgin so I'm going to try and distract everyone from it by pretending it's people with relationship experience who must be the bad people, not me".

[Shrimpenjoyer]

experience" hahahahaha ,🤣

You don't have "experience" at anything good, you are just "experienced" at wasting time with people you pretend to like

[Gedough]

Yes, so many Issues with such girls. I detailed it in my previous comment.

[exitseven]

Maybe. It might show a lack of committment.

[Kelly6]

@shrimpenjoyer maybe

[Anonymous]

How many is many in your opinion?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

If she is like 21 and already has been in at least 5 that's too many.