So I turn 20 in a few months and I met a 34 year guy at my cousin's wedding. The 2 of us were sitting around the same table and we got to know each other a little bit. He seemed very young. At first I thought he was 27. He was very good looking and had a great personality so I wanted to see him again after the wedding. Our married cousin planned a kickback and invited both of us. After seeing each other for awhile, we started to have feelings for each other even with the huge age gap.
A part of me is okay with it because I'm very mature for my age. People always think I'm in my twenties and are pretty surprised when I tell them my real age. The guy acts a bit younger than his age. So maturity wise we seem to be pretty equal. But a part of me thinks it's kind of weird..
Is it weird/gross for 2 people with a big age gap like this to be together?
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Yeah, I've done it but from my perspective the woman grows up a little more and the allure of the older man when at your age wears off. I've had plenty of fun and totally think it's worth it. So if you have feelings for the guy and it's mutual I say go for it!0