Do most guys plan the future more than girls in relationships?

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I start planning a future within like 5-6 months. And all the girls I have been with are scared of committing to some part of it.

HollyK21 · Accepted Answer

Nah, I don’t think that those women disagreeing with your plans for the future is indicative of men planning ahead more than women as a whole. Depending on what’s being suggested by you, those women may think it’s too soon for such discussions. I mean 5-6 months, you’re pretty new into officiating the relationship, so if you are talking about marriage, having kids or anything along those lines then maybe they think you’re moving too fast, not necessarily being proactive. My now-fiancé and I didn’t even discuss living together until after our 1 year anniversary.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I don't think planning is gender-specific.

Women generally tend to get caught up in "nesting" though. A natural tendency, especially when we have a built-in "nest" with a hatchling on the way.

Guys will naturally tend to plan their empire, which is a little different. Those who don't have the responsibility of family to keep them tethered to anything tend to be like kites without string, though.

usernameobvious · Accepted Answer

I think both partners can do it if they really really lusr for someone and have been cute in multiple dates - some people just want long term

slatyb · Accepted Answer

No, some guys will stay with a woman for years with no intention of marrying her because they are looking for something else.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’ve noticed just the opposite, but it is true that some girls/women my age and a little older are more concerned with their education or their future career than settling down with someone

Texasgal95 · Answer

I really think it just depends on the situation. Honestly, I know for me that’s always been my goal the long-term, but I want this relationship to end in marriage like I said it’s situational on every person is different.

ASKNETTEERM99 · Answer

Just take it one day at a time. Good to have plans but better to focus on continuing to improve yourself and she will follow. If you only focus on the relationship or the girl you will loose her. Your the man, if you keep leveling up she will stay along for the path you take which should inevitably lead to the plans/goals you have for the realtionship

MissSunshine2 · Answer

I've noticed this amongst my guy friends with their new girlfriends, too. From the moment they committed.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

I think so, because lots of lads are more orderly while the ladies are often more spontaneous.

confident666 · Answer

I had the exact opposite experience: tge guys I have dated barely planned anything after the first month or so.

Anonymous · Answer

This could very well be true? Really hard to say?

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, it is quite the opposite.

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