Do most guys plan the future more than girls in relationships?

[Anonymous]

I start planning a future within like 5-6 months.
And all the girls I have been with are scared of committing to some part of it.

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[HollyK21]

Nah, I don’t think that those women disagreeing with your plans for the future is indicative of men planning ahead more than women as a whole. Depending on what’s being suggested by you, those women may think it’s too soon for such discussions. I mean 5-6 months, you’re pretty new into officiating the relationship, so if you are talking about marriage, having kids or anything along those lines then maybe they think you’re moving too fast, not necessarily being proactive. My now-fiancé and I didn’t even discuss living together until after our 1 year anniversary.

[DishLady]

I don't think planning is gender-specific.

Women generally tend to get caught up in "nesting" though. A natural tendency, especially when we have a built-in "nest" with a hatchling on the way.

Guys will naturally tend to plan their empire, which is a little different. Those who don't have the responsibility of family to keep them tethered to anything tend to be like kites without string, though.

[usernameobvious]

I think both partners can do it if they really really lusr for someone and have been cute in multiple dates - some people just want long term

[usernameobvious]

*lust

[slatyb]

No, some guys will stay with a woman for years with no intention of marrying her because they are looking for something else.

[kmg9150]

Like love…. Because marriage is by no means an indication of love. Marriage is about possessions and ownership.

[WhitneySnow]

I’ve noticed just the opposite, but it is true that some girls/women my age and a little older are more concerned with their education or their future career than settling down with someone

[Asker]

You know what,
thank you there are more like that.
Cause that's my type.

[_Jenny_]

@WhitneySnow
That’s absolutely 💯 true

[Texasgal95]

I really think it just depends on the situation. Honestly, I know for me that’s always been my goal the long-term, but I want this relationship to end in marriage like I said it’s situational on every person is different.

[MissSunshine2]

I've noticed this amongst my guy friends with their new girlfriends, too. From the moment they committed.

[MissSunshine2]

I thought about this and I think that men are more romantic than women.

[Asker]

True in a way.
Women choose someone who doesn't truly love them.
Lose trust in men altogether and then a guy who never got loved is 100 times more romantic than anyone you'll ever meet.

[confident666]

I had the exact opposite experience: tge guys I have dated barely planned anything after the first month or so.

[Nikki1989]

No, it is quite the opposite.