@pink_and_inloveI disagree but respectfully 😊😊 this comes Easy or hard for people depending on too many factors behind gender. It would for example be one of the _most_ difficult things for me to say. ... Is hard for a man to do!Women have it easy being emotional
Beyond not behind 😊
On the other hand talk is nice but it’s talk. If someone any reliable in the or sent it doesn’t matter how much they talk if they future. I mean this in general not About him ln particular, But not excluding him.
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I think both are serious
Lol I think you can easily say In general, guys are plannersIn general , Guys are not plannersBoth will be equally true 😛
Nope the first isn't true. No guy is a planner because eventually you realize that life has it's own plans. Like you can decide what to do over the next couple of years but there's no way to know what or who you'll grow old with. Not until two years go by and you're happy together.But no guy on earth would talk to a girl for one month and decide "aight you're the one for me Im done with the rest of the world" that's just psychotic
Planning doesn’t mean it works out it means you want to tryMany people plan every moment of their day. Portion of those people are kenResults don’t equal the activityPlans are dashed constantly but that doesn’t make it not a plan. Going to school is a plan. Some guys don’t do that some do. You can’t prepare for school or a job or a relationship without some planning. How far ahead a person tries to plan depends on the person. If it works or not depends on many factors. I do agree talking about something no matter how much you want it, doesn’t make it a plan. A goal is a fantasy without a Plan. You g people often want all kinds of things. They forget the planning part. Thrn life happens while you are busy wishing on a star. But msny you b people do plan. And life still happens. Sometimes with the plan sometimes without. But a plan is a plan whether It comes to fruition or not. It is meaningless to say guys don’t plan. you can say plans often don’t work out🤷♀️😊
Anyhow she didn’t ask about plans just thinking lol
Lol yeah I was quite skeptical about that too lol but now we’ve known each other longer and have done a lot together and he still remains feeling the same.
I would ask my parents is that normal lmao? And my dad responded with i told your mom on the first date that I wanted to marry her. That’s why I have hope lol but I definitely do not want our relationship to end up like my parent’s
I'm confused. Why are you in such a rush to settle down? You're 19, when I was 19 nothing could have convinced me to do it, im almost 23 now and that hasn't changed. Sure to each his own but I'm curious as to why, dont you wanna live more, experience new things, meet lots of people, make a career?
Not me her lolThey don’t plan to marry till later But def people marry young. Depends what part of the world you are in I guess. I know people from middle America who are married at 20 I know people from Western Europe same thing. Then there are people who never marry or wait till middle age Everyone is diff but it does happen and not alwats bc of psychosis though sometimes 😛I think she just wants to feel like his words are genuine. I think tyey can be genuine feeling. We do what will happen no one does. But I don’t think wanting to be with someone at that age is cray at all. Life will settle it either way 😊
@ZackBan You're wrong. Many guys do like to plan ahead (including myself.)"And my dad responded with i told your mom on the first date that I wanted to marry her."@pink_and_inlove Your dad is my type of dude! Lol. (JK haha; I probably wouldn't say it THAT fast.)
@Jamie05rhs lol yeah and he was a player
@pink_and_inlove Ok. But he kept his word, didn't he?
Why are you saying that something’s wrong with him?
it sounds like things are rushed. i think if he asked you to marry him tomorrow you'd say yes. it's not a typical type of relationship you'd see because you are both so young and inexperienced. i want to be wrong about this and everything is fine
Oh no he doesn’t plan on marrying me now lol but years ahead he told me. When our careers are set. He is 23 and about to graduate college then he has to work for a year and get into pa school but I still have 3-4 years of college left ahead of me and we don’t live that far from each other only 10 minutes away
it's a starry-eyed promise i've seen too many times. i hope he's sincere
I disagree with @Sevenpointfive. I don't think there's anything wrong with him. I just think he's a romantic guy like I am.
@Jamie05rhs you always disagree with me lol
Sevenpointfive have you ever wanted to marry someone and have kids?
when i was 19 :P
Well he’s 23 lol
@Sevenpointfive No, I don't lol.
me at 23 was a very different boy just saying
@Jamie05rhs at least you don't admit it
@Sevenpointfive Admit what?
Why is everyone so negative? We’re both adults and college students he is 23
I don't read other people's comments but what I'm saying is it's a rarity for it to be THE ONE. When I was younger I fell in and out of love ALL THE TIME. Thinking this is the one and it wasn't sadly. I could be wrong though maybe it is the one
@BoredNCrazed1324 what? Rarity? I know a lot of people who settle down at that age. My mother dated my father when she was 21. Got married and pregnant at 24. Married for 22yrs. What works for you may not work for others and same in reverse. Lets stop putting peoples life in a box. Anything can happen and we all have different time lines.
@Lokibebe21 Why do you think I said what I did? I'm a big as a realist that's around, that's why what I say is as true as it gets. Of everyone I've ever known that's dated which are thousands when including all people throughout school. I don't know a single couple that is still together but I do have 1 friend that married right after high school that's old.
I don’t think my boyfriend is lying at all
@pink_and_inlove I don't think he is, either! I was just answering the question that you asked. I wasn't really talking about him or you. :)
Why did you guys break up?
Did they promise you that they were going to marry you?
All three mentioned marriage.
But did they promise you it? Did they also mention having children with you? How old were you?
Promise? They mentioned it because they wanted to not because I asked them to promise me.192529
Same lol but I was wondering if any of them promised you that they would buy you a rung one day because my boyfriend did
19 - he got me a silver ring25 - didn't offer a ring, but closest to get married29 - asked what kind of ring I likeDon't overanalyzing with what he said, just enjoy the moments...Just
How exactly did you guys grow apart? Did it become a long distance relationship?
Lol, you can message me if you are interested in my love stories. :)
It doesn’t let me
Long story short... you are too young to worry about it. :)Just enjoy the moment and go with the flow.
I know he’s being honest and sincere
Then If you know the rhe thing u posted is irrelavent anyway
Don’t think this is a majority thing anymore thy maybe in the past 🤷♀️
But not all right
No one is all right. We all have small insights 😊