Why would a girl act like she doesn’t know me while she’s at work?

[Anonymous]

but we do know each other , i meet her last summer at this bar and even bought her and her girlfriend a shot , we've talked and definitely know each other

i'm used to experiencing this from the other way , usually the girl ignores me outside of her work , is ok with talking to me at work then ignores me when i see her somewhere else. not used to girl ignoring me when at work

[Mariogirl09]

Because she doesn't like you. Is this the same girl you talked about before constantly?

[Asker]

no different girl , meet this girl summer 2025 , never knew where she worked it was always a mystery until now , note she didn't work there last year seems to have just started now and works there this summer

she even accepted my follow request on instagram , she didn't add rate away but did so eventually and i can view her page now , never messaged her though

[Mariogirl09]

Maybe she was super busy at work and couldn't speak to you. But generally if someone doesn't speak its because they dont want to or too shy

[Asker]

she's not shy is the life of the party when at that bar , although didn't seem to fit in as well at her new job as you'd think, didn't seem to be friends with the more senior staff

[Mariogirl09]

You do a lot of analyzing. Why dont you actually ask a girl out and stop all the guessing games lol

[Asker]

i saw this girl at a bar in a different town last night she talked to me there and said she started working at that place 3 weeks ago , she acted normal and seemed ok that i talked to her

[Mariogirl09]

Well she only talked to you once. She doesn't owe you her life

[Mariogirl09]

She probably doesn't even recognize you especially since she works at a bar. Hundreds of people go there every day, night and weekend

[Asker]

no she recognised me , its not that busy of a busy , more of a casual summer time hang out , it doesn't even have that many tables like small

[Mariogirl09]

Well to me she doesn't want to talk to you

[Mariogirl09]

she's not obligated either

[Asker]

doesn't want to talk at her work , but she talked to me at a bar last night and seemed ok with it

at the restaurant she seemed oddly uncomfortable and not her self , odd as the place she works is fairly chill and would seem like an easy place to work at