Women, do random compliments from guys feel flattering or creepy?

[Finchie40]

Say you are at a store shopping and some random guy walked up to you and said you have very beautiful hair , or you have very beautiful eyes etc. do you enjoy those compliments or does it creep ya out? I know some of you get creeped outif you don’t find the guy attractive , but if he is attractive you enjoy it. Me personally isn’t that way when a random girl compliments something about me , whether I am attracted to her or not , I am still respectful and flattered that she acknowledged something about me. Because I don’t see any reason to be rude to someone for pointing out something about you that caught their eye. So are you a respectful polite person to everyone or just the attractive ones’?

[Kvass]

I don't really like it because randomly complimenting strangers isn't a thing in my culture. It just feels weird to me. I've experienced it while traveling, some guys in vacation romance mode randomly compliment any woman just to start a conversation. I wouldn't call it creepy, but there's nothing flattering about being the 100th woman they've approached that day. A compliment means much more when it comes from the right man at the right time.

[Finchie40]

I disagree because once you see someone you are attracted to and interested in , why miss your window of opportunity with them , the chances of them running into you again is a very slim chance , so I feel it’s better to take the chance instead of taking no chance at all and going home and kicking yourself in the ass for not trying. We aren’t mind readers and we don’t have signs flashing over our heads stating what we are into and what are current relationship status is , so taking a chance is the only option we really have unless you choose to miss your window of opportunity. Yes rejection sucks but at least you have an answer over no answer at all is how I see things

[sage2021]

A friend of mine who is an elderly man, complimented the order taker at the cash register by telling her that she was beautiful, and her hair matches her hat. This was at a fast food restaurant.

She went and told her boss and was banned from ever going there again!

I felt so sorry for him, because he's not a dirty old man type, but actually very nice.

He didn't know the new rules about talking a female in that manner. Guys, it's just not worth it! It can get you in trouble. Like walking on a landmine you didn't see!!

I'm not that way, but you never know nowadays what will happen if you compliment the wrong chick.

[Finchie40]

Yea it’s sad on how this society is turning into a disaster , bring me back in time when people were more respectful and out going , and not offended by the littlest things.

[sage2021]

Oh how I wish upon the stars ⭐✨ for those days again.

[NathanDavis]

can be both, and more... all depends on the context and situation

[fishbone77]

It all depends on if they find you attractive or not.

[DragonDan444]

Short answer - It depends. It depends on the girl and what she considers creepy it depends on the dude who he is as well as how he says it and what he says. Most dudes would be lying if an attractive verses vert unattractive woman said something to him in how he would react.

But there’s definitely women who over react as well as react positively to creepy behavior that only encroaches it against other women. So there’s two extremes. But if the compliment is genuine and not something weird generally it’s not creepy unless her heads in the gutter.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I don't like it, but not because I find it creepy. I just have really low self esteem when it comes to my looks so it just sounds fake when I hear it, like they are just trying to be nice. That's a me thing and I know it. I know somewhere inside that it isn't them lying, but it's hard to fight that nagging voice inside that tells me it isn't true.

This also extends to my partners who try to make me believe in myself and call me pretty, etc. So I'm and equal opportunity denier lol

[_Jenny_]

@Finchie40 it depends on how he says it

[robocop666]

depends on how good you look

https://www.youtube.com/embed/KNJQhu--mQo

[Badtobad]

I don't mind it from any guy

[Anonymous]

It would be flattering but it has never happened.