Girls Do you feel like you give good compliments to guys when you want to? Guys have you ever received good compliments from women?

[Still-alive]

Guys definitely don’t receive compliments as much as girls do. But whenever they do so i do feel like they put mich thought into it for the most part.

what do you think? Could be personality or looks. Whatever

Im a girl and i feel like i give good compliments to guys for the most part

Im a girl and i think I compliment guys ok

Im a girl and i feel like im not so great at complimenting guys

Im a guy and i feel like most girls give good compliments to guys whenever they do give them

Im a guy and i think overall women are decent at giving compliments to guys

Im a guy and think women mostly suck at complimenting guys

I dont give compliments to guys OR i never received a compliment from a woman before

[snowboarder720]

Anyone who compliments you about your veins is probably a nurse.
I rarely receive compliments from women. My girlfriend Andy I get our eyebrows done (by the same stylist) and she’ll receive all sorts of compliments about her eyebrows and I’ve never received any.
I’m Porter sit there just how society does things; Women receive more compliments.

[snowboarder720]

Pretty sure*
Auto correct is killing me.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

The only compliments I want are on my music or my writing. I truly don't give a shit whether anyone finds my visual appearance pleasing or not. I don't put any effort into it and I barely have any control over it. My writing is what I pour my heart into, and if you give me a genuine compliment on it, it pretty much blows my mind.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Good for you.

[Blackcosmo]

I'm too shy to compliment a guy (or people unless I know them so well). Sometimes I feel like people might think I'm creepy, weird, or narrow minded for complimenting them. But this brain is full of data and I'm always complimenting people silently.

[melanieeeB]

I can give good compliments but I'm not so much a vocal person.
I don't really say often what I liked or whatever, I always feel like I do show it more but yeah

[CrazyGirl2]

No, I give complements to people who deserve them because they have done or said something that absolutely deserves complimenting.

[Still-alive]

Ok so the ones you feel deserve them do you feel you give good compliments to them?

[CrazyGirl2]

I mean, I suppose you would have to ask them. It wouldn’t be very humble for me to say “yes, I give great compliments”. Let’s say someone looks amazing after getting a haircut, I’ll complement them. I let them know how wonderful they look, and possibly ask them where they got it done, and who did it. I don’t give false compliments, and I don’t use compliments to get what I want from men, or to manipulate men in any way. I don’t USE compliments, I give them freely, when deserved. They wouldn't mean very much if I just threw them around to basically everyone, regardless.

[Still-alive]

Ok well to put it another way when you give those compliments do you feel like what you say really truly comes from the heart? mean ever single word of it? Cause even if that may not for some reason not be received well by whoever you told it to, i would still consider that a good compliment in my book.

[CrazyGirl2]

No I think I am very good at emotionally connecting with the people I interact on a even semi regular basis with. I would say (given the number of compliments I have received for being an open and honest friend) that I am very good at saying things I mean in a very loving and sincere way.

[snowboarder720]

Soo what you’re saying is the guy needs to earn a compliment but women are supposed to deserve them?

[CrazyGirl2]

@snowboarder720 Fuck off troll! I said what I meant and I meant what I said. Anyone who prefaces with “so what you’re saying…” is disingenuous at best, and in your case just a troll!!!

[snowboarder720]

I didn’t mean to be a troll, I apologize for my ignorance.

[CrazyGirl2]

@snowboarder720 I accept your apology, but I will have to do so with a slight degree of trepidation. Only because the very first thing I wrote was “I give complements to people who deserve them because they have done or said something that absolutely deserves complimenting” Notice there is absolutely NO mention of sex or gender in that answer. The only mention of men in any of my answers to Doug ( @Still-alive ) was when I wrote “I don’t use compliments to get what I want from men, or to manipulate men in any way.” So where you came up with me believing that men needing to EARN compliments, while women just deserve them is sus at best! It certainly was never written by me. But as I wrote, I will accept your apology and I appreciate it. It is a rare thing for someone on GaG to actually apologize, so thank you 🙏🏼.

[menina]

I only give compliments online because it's easier than doing it in person 😂 I guess my compliments are ok.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Yeah. I'm trying to break the stereotype of only guys giving out compliments, so whenever I give a comp, it's genuine.

[Passing_by]

Talking just about looks, I think I'm content with whatever compliments I have recieved. Most common of them were handsome and cute but rarely sexy. Been complimented on my hair separately as well.

[Marshymallow]

I give good compliments overall. I try not to over do it tho

[Lucy68]

I think I do. I can be shy around guys though

[fiveinthemorning]

Not to keen on the flattering tongue. Speaking for myself of course.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm a guy and I think overall women are decent at giving compliments to guys

[Shy_Steve]

I have had nice compliments about my haircut before and about things that I have done, But never really anything else.

[7barbieringz]

I'm scared to compliment guys tbh

[Still-alive]

How come?

[7barbieringz]

Well I guess I should clarify, I only feel that way about strangers. Guys I know, I will compliment them but usually in a jokey way.

[Jltakk]

Compliments are towards my clothes, not my physical looks, and they happen rarely from women.

[anon1903]

I compliment guys all the time

[Dinosaursandanime65]

One girl one time said she liked my hair.