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I know to leave it alone, which I have. I’m just wanting a woman’s perspective on whether there’s anywhere noticeable that could’ve caused a change.
We’d been texting for about a week, spaced throughout the day, with more consistent back-and-forth at night or random times when my work breaks lined up with her being free. Things had progressively gotten more consistent, with more interest being shown both ways.
Here are the screenshots from the last day, which is what leaves me confused about what changed or whether I did something that caused the change. We went from making plans and looking forward to a phone call to nothing.
The good-morning text the next day was normal for how we’d been talking (been sending each day when I left for work and she’d respond when she got moving and conversation would continue normally) I followed up that evening because she was driving 4 hours home to SC that day and I genuinely wanted to make sure she’d made it home safely.
I’m not asking what I should do going forward—I already know to leave it alone. I’m just curious if anyone sees something in the exchange that I’m missing.
and yeah before everyone focuses on me callin her darlin, we’re in the south and that’s a completely normal term around here 😂
What Girls Said
I honestly don't know what happened. There isn't anything that jumps out at me and screams oh there is the message that changed everything.
To me, it looks like a very normal conversation that just stopped. Perhaps something came up or she had an emergency. I wouldn't completely write it off yet. I'd be patient and see if she ends up messaging and what is said then.
Where did you meet this lady? Online, work, etc?
Online. I do mechanic work in the field so not many women of interest that I’d meet out here lol.
That was messages from last Wednesday and Thursday and still haven’t heard anything back, though I have seen online activity of that makes sense.
I wasn’t going to say anything else, just literally confused going from that to nothing that quick 🤷♂️
Okay, and don't jump to conclusions, but she may have never intended to meet and was bored. She got in too deep and didn't know how to get out so shouted you.
Just one possibility.
That’s understandable.
I’m not exactly jumping to conclusions but from showing interest to ghosting for 4-5 full days I can kinda read the writing on the wall so to speak.
I enjoyed talking to her and continued like normal with good morning to give a reasonable opening to speak so it wasn’t heavy or anything. And then was genuinely was concerned if she made it through a long road trip after not hearing.
But there’s nothing I can do on my end. Just wondering if I missed clues or did something. And women seem to pick up better on cues than I ever could 😂
But thank you for reading and giving your opinion. It really does help
I do not think you misread anything nor said anything that would have caused her to stop. I wpuld chalk this up to something happened (not necessarily bad) or she is crazy and strung you along for whatever twisted reason she had or just boredom.
You're welcome.
I see nothing that could’ve caused her to change her mind. Probably she just got cold feet about voice chatting and eventually meeting in person. Why, I don't know.
That’s what I was leaning towards, but I’m pretty terrible at this and making sure I’m not missing something 😂
You’re not!
Thank you
Yeah, it’s where you were talking about the plans and you said you’d call her so you could make plans. You should have made the plan. You need to plan the date and present it to her. Also, she says she’ll call you later and instead of accepting that you start talking about going to walmart and telling her once again that you’ll call her BUT you don’t, you just tell her you’re home so now she can call even though you said you would. Also, don’t call someone you’ve never met darling.
Yeah, just say thanks for taking the time to read and give me your opinion. I’ll take that consideration moving forward and just take the initiative and call myself or let them call instead of verifying if they’re free at the time
Talk to text kills ne 🤦♂️