Why do so many women find ‘bad’ men more attractive than calm guys?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Those women are just stupid people my man. It's not their fault.😆

Good women typically see beyond a "bad boy". women who've not matured yet do not.

But these "bad" men exude confidence that's what these women are drawn to. They take charge. Much like her father that used to molest her. It's FAMILIAR to these types of women. In these women's minds it's protection. Kind of like the MOB offers protection.😆 You pay through the nose for it. And it's not really protection.😆 But in a woman's mind it's not about what actually IS that's important. It's about whatever her feelings make her BELIEVE. And these so called "bad" men you talk about, get her feelings firing on all cylinders. If a woman FEELS it it's real to her. Even if it's complete B. S.

Hope that help.👍

[NathanDavis]

what's so attractive about "calm" though...

I understand the importance to remain focused, collected, ground and level headed, yes but...

what if they're just passive, "boring" and not interesting at all... no intrigue, no thrill,

must you be "calm" all the time? have a little fun in a while

women do like the first... but passive and dull? not so much, lol

[Kvass]

We don't. That's just something rejected guys tell themselves.🥱

[Asker]

I don't think so. I find that happening everyday and everywhere

[exitseven]

I think this is an urban legend. There are a few girls with self esteem issues that need to be treated like dirt, but they are in the minority

[jahaims]

Emotionally unhealthy people are attracted to other emotionally unhealthy people. Most people aren't emotionally healthy.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Opinion Owner]

Just something “nice guys” like to imagine to blame us for being single

[Asker]

I have seen a relationship where we all told her that he is a toxic bully.
And she still went out with him and got dumb.
And now back with him and just enduring that toxicity (he hits her).
I have tried to talk to him. But I felt it might make it worse.
When I used to see her in office, her makeup used to hide it well.

But the constant pain she said and the nail marks.
From dressing a sliveless tops and skirts. She has started wearing full sleeves (she rolled up her sleeves ones cause we were playing ping pong)
And the makeup came off and the marks were there.