How do I cope when losing weight won’t make me feel attractive or loved?

[Anonymous]

I feel miserable because of how ugly I am and how insignificant and invisible I feel because of how I look

imagine being in your 20s never experienced love or affection, no friends… and also not being smart

[lightbulb27]

Focusing on what you cannot control is a recipe for misery and suffering.

Focusing on what you can do, ideally with plans broken down into steps of what you are going to do... that is a recipe for success... no matter the result.

There is a lot you can influence and control, emotionally, physically, life choices. There is a lot you can influence and change in yourself and that will change how others respond to you.

you aren't the only person that feels or felt ugly in this world. The world in many ways, makes us feel that way, when it's just the opinions of some.

Focus on making yourself your best. That's all any of us can do.

[Anonymous]

Improving your looks might not get you the results you desire. I increased my attractiveness, and if anything I had worse luck. The opposite gender gives me significantly more attention, but they never do anything.

[Nikki1989]

Focus on what actually is important and you will feel better about yourself.

[Chayce]

Easy fix. Work hard on your looks. Marry a rich old man. When he drops out, you inherit millions without any effort. 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

I significant n invisible to who?

[jahaims]

You get your value you from the wrong things

[In_Trance]

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