Why do girls always tend to have such a low self-esteem? It's all those fucking stupid fashion magazines and the like, isn't it?

[Anonymous]

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If you don't look exactly like all these extremely photoshopped, plastic, AI bimbos, you're no good and should just give up on ever finding a man!!

[Nuclear_Warhead]

Mostly just the fatherless women have that mindset. What are all women you ever interact with fatherless? That's a problem in you. ㅤ

[Asker]

Just to name a few, Jennifer WAS adopted but those that raised her were very good to her and, from what I can tell, had a lot of money so, she was never wanting.
Kelly has parents but it was mostly her mother that picked on her and they got divorced in her late teens but she's still in touch with both and seems to be more into her father than mother.
Then my "present" girlfriend hradly ever had a dad in her life.
On the other hand, my next door neighbor lost her dad to a heart attack riight after she was born and she grew up quite well-adjusted. By best friend's step-daughters lost their dad to divorce at a young age and neither of them turned out bad. My cousin's daughter hardlly had a dad growing up and she's VERY outgoing and sometimes, a force to be reckoned wiith (in a good way), another of my cousin's daughters lost her dad to divorce and she never had an esteem issue, nor did my 2nd cousin's daughter who lost him to murder when she was little.
No, most I interact with HAVE fathers!

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I barely ever look at women in media tbh. I just have low self esteem and have since I was little before social media was even a thing. I could see my development in comparison to my peers and didn't like what I saw. I'm 5'10, had small breasts, and never really felt like I had a typical feminine body.

I have had a breast augmentation since then, but I still am really hard on myself even with my partners trying to convince me that I am pretty or whatever. It's so bad that I became agoraphobic as I got older. It's bad, but my experience was based on real life comparisons, not media.

[queenofcardio]

​The majority of them don't.

​Sometimes, low self esteem is caused by their upbringing and life experiences especially for people who were constantly criticized, which naturally affects their self worth. Some people deal with it better and some are always working on it

[Asker]

I had a TERRIBLE upbringging!! Dad yelling at me over EVERYTHING and even going so far as tro saying he wished I got hit by a car when I was out on my bike!! I've been alone nearly my entire life!! To this day, I STILL can't find a girlfriend that'll stick by me no matter what!! I mean, I know she still supports me and all that and I'm PRETTY DAMNED SURE she DOES still love me but, she's allowing her own low self-esteem to destroy our wonderful relationship!! And, I can barely recall a time when I WASN'T criticized for nearly EVERYTHING I said or did and I don't have a low self-esteem because of any of that!!

[Nikki1989]

You don't know many (if any) women, do you?

[Asker]

YES! A quite a lot of them!! And a good many are like that! That's why I asked!!

[Anonymous]

Stop lumping us all together.

[Asker]

Did I say, "ALL girls"?