Why would an attractive girl still have low self esteem?

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thatguyfromtoronto · Accepted Answer

Past, family life, her inner circle. That’s why someone who is blessed with looks and can do more with their mind instead of gossiping with girls and taking IG selfies isn’t going to help her cause. Gotta look in the mirror and say, “I’m going to let go of this, I’m going to cut that person out” if it means going to the gym, doing well in school focusing on herself to reinvent herself than so be it, otherwise if she doesn’t value herself, guys will step over in relationships and people will step over her in life or at work.

Junkberry99 · Accepted Answer

It might be because of her past. Things we see on the outside don't tell us anything about what is happening on the inside. If a group of people will treat you like shit, tell you you are worthless and everyone would be better off without you, sadly. You will start to believe it.

Fitness-Fanatic · Accepted Answer

Because they don't see themselves the way other's see them. They don't see beauty when they look in the mirror. All they see is flaws and imperfections.

They may have been constantly told they aren't good enough by bullies, abusive parents or an abusive partner.

linaashxx · Accepted Answer

It’s the equivalent of asking ‘why do people have depression’—there are numerous of factors, to name a few: sexual abuse, rape, domestic abuse, financial issues and etc.

markscott · Answer

Low self esteem often comes from how a person was treated when young. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with how good they may or may not look. If a girl feels she in unattractive and she has low self esteem, then the she could be very good looking, and still believe she is unattractive.

Anonymous · Answer

She may not be loved by her family. She may be hurt by her first love. Girls in her school are jealous so they bully her. Guys go out with her just want sex. She is not happy with her life and gets bitter. When she starts taking revenges. This world will judge :’Look! Beautiful women are bitchy. Give them shit.’ And so, average women are mostly loved easily

Isten · Answer

Maybe she was an ugly duckling and she got used to what she looked like and now sees the same thing. Maybe she was bullied for her looks. Or she could have been a social outcast all her life. We will never know.

just_a_potato · Answer

It doesn't matter what standards, her friends, or even her family say, if she believes she is unattractive that's what she is to herself, and only way she'll have a higher self esteem is for her to believe on her own that she is a beautiful person

Tommytee1948 · Answer

I would have to think because of her beauty she has been driven down by less fortunate looking teens. So to her beauty is a curse. Just remember beauty is only skin deep. Keep an upbeat attitude and treat others with compassion.

shan_shan · Answer

I believe am attractive but also have low self esteem sometimes and i believe thats how we humans are we are not perfect each one has their own insecurities... but we should be strong and not let it affect our life

MrB81 · Answer

Because it's not the looks what build up your self esteem but the way you react to your image. You can be attractive and and still focus on your faults or be less attractive and happy with it. I chose the latter.

Nivinxus · Answer

Because they don't perceive themselves as worthy. Could be a variety of reasons such as lack of success, being the target of bullying or always comparing themselves to another person who succeeded plenty of times.

It's not a straight forward case.

Ripper_E · Answer

Being attractive is subjective, and people who find attractive are people too. They can experience depression, pain, suffering, just like the rest of us. Being attractive or being a person others find attractive doesn't change anything.

jasco · Answer

Even if they attractive that would just give other girls more reason to fuck her over and for guys to cheat on her so it wouldn't matter if she's pretty there are things that would make her life a living hell just bc she's pretty

steelbunny · Answer

Maybe she was not always attractive, or she feels she is only valued for her looks and not for herself, or maybe she was neglected as a child, etc, etc.

Marrry · Answer

Bad experiences from the past. Someone told her she is ugly or made her feel she is not good enough or an ex left her in a way she made her believe she is unattractive and boosted her insecurities.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

It's better this way. I know it sounds silly and people tell you to be more confident but once you are (not extremely) they think you're an arrogant hoe.

slatyb · Answer

I was an attractive young man and had low self-esteem. My wife was a lovely young woman and had low self-esteem. We didn't see ourselves as others saw us.

DianaWest · Answer

because they don't see themselves the way you do. what you see as beautiful, they see as inadequate or grotesque.

hellacray · Answer

I don't know cause guys use her for sex?  I'm just assuming most attractive girls probably have a large body count. If they're attractive they probably like that kind of attention.

Anonymous · Answer

She genuinely doesn’t believe she’s beautiful. A hundred of people could tell her she is, but if she doesn’t believe it herself, nobody else can make her.

megaman242 · Answer

Because she don't live up to the sosial media view of what a woman should look like and she will be self aware on that. I don't like the Kardashian look, and I don't like the Instagram type of "model's" I want something else.

311WasAnInsideJam · Answer

Beauty is skin deep. Everything else is still debatable.

randombrunette07x · Answer

I guess possibly because of her past, pressures from social media, self esteem issues etc

alexd666 · Answer

Maybe they don't see themselves as attractive or perhaps their low self-esteem is unrelated to their physical appearance,

YesIm4Foot9 · Answer

Intelligence, personality, height etc I'm always shy as I'm only 4ft6 but I'm not unattractive

SentientBrick · Answer

Because being attractive doesn't make the world a less shitty place.

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

Not sure but probably cause they have been judged before

Ordinarygurl_ · Answer

because they probably have been judged before or feel like people don't like them

Dkc123 · Answer

Our mind knows everything about us & he always find a way to take us down if we don't follow his orders..

Historylover18 · Answer

People are assholes. People judge, get jealous, ruin others, all of which contribute to low self esteem or worse

natzz · Answer

bullying, shitty experiences, depression, maybe her parents made her that way.

janna_jcb · Answer

Because low self esteem is a psychological thing, and it arguably doesn’t have anything to do with ones physical appearance

nsyprkr · Answer

Generally because of people's jealousy. People try to prove them how they are not attractive to catch their attention. It is sad.

loveslongnails · Answer

Because they are insecure inside... doesn't matter about the outside.

krogaan · Answer

being beautiful is only the tip of the iceberg your looking at 10% out of 90% there more to people then just being attractive

Dolemite510 · Answer

I’ve found pretty girls are really hard on themselves about any flaw they have because maybe it sticks out more 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

Cause your self esteem isn't only based on your looks, more on your vibes with yourself

Rider22 · Answer

Perhaps they have a disorder. Hard to say with out knowing ther person and their personality

Anonymous · Answer

For me because I don’t have a great career, I live my parents, and I have anxiety that has prevented me from progressing but I’m pretty, a nice dresser and have a lovely personality.

jae_jae · Answer

Because we all have traumas and problems in our life. Including an attractive girl.

princessfromjupiter · Answer

Because looks are a subjective thing?

Pinay_ako · Answer

Abandonment? Rejection? Family issues? Abuse?

chriscdi · Answer

I don't know you tell me

Anonymous · Answer

Because looks are subjective

Lizalogan · Answer

Maybe she has been messed about a lot in the past

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Because she's a loser? Looks dont mean shit

ItzLaura · Answer

Past experiences

Anonymous · Answer

Women don’t make sense

Sha84 · Answer

mental health issues

james0000 · Answer

mental illness

LuWe22 · Answer

Bullying

DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 · Answer

All in her head

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