Do women act "difficult" on purpose?

[Anonymous]

I want to say this girl and I get along because we do, but, she acts too difficult towards me. Any attempt to talk to her are met with sardonic answers and her taking everything I say seriously even though I'm obviously joking. She seems to get a kick out of it and I admit its fun trying to get through her walls but she isn't like this at all with anybody else. Is she just acting difficult or what? I mean even if all our conversations are sarcastic we always have a great comeback and we never seem to run out of things to say, but why put so many obstacles?

[eleelove]

She wants you to really try to get her. She's likely been hurt before and doesn't want that to happen again. So what does she do? She designs herself in a way that the next guy that gets to her will be one that truly wants her. Because if they didn't, they would've given up already. So keep going with it. And yes, as I've said, she's acting "difficult" on purpose. GOOD LUCK <3

[Hades]

"She's likely been hurt before and doesn't want that to happen again." - That isn't the QAs fault, why should he suffer because of what someone else did?

[Phoenix1991]

I concur with Hades on that.

[DocClassic]

i say let her be difficult, move on to some one who is actually fun and likes to be with you and let her be a spinster haha

[noobseaplenty]

You are not her therapist. All you are doing is wasting time that you could be spending with a cool girl that won't give you any sh*t, and yes, they are out there. So if you like self inflicting pain or are so desperate that you think you can't get anyone else, then GOOD LUCK <3, if you are a man then tell her to f*** off

[eleelove]

Point is, SHE WANTS HIM TO REALLY WANT HER!

You boys don't understand how our minds work. WE WANT HIM TO TRY AND CATCH US!

Trust me on this, if you try hard enough, and since you seem to like her enough already, like creamcheese said, they'll cave in eventually.

[creamcheese]

Some girls act difficult but they eventually cave in.

when they don't cave in it means they aren't interested

[noobseaplenty]

Women will put up obstacles as long as men are willing to climb over it. Once a woman senses that you are the type of man that will not play her games suddenly they are sleeping with you on the first date and calling you, it's shocking how much women change once you can make them feel good and not take any of their sh*t

[Asker]

I know. I was a bit of a jerk and she is getting revenge, I guess, but no matter what I do its not good enough. So I'm in that line where I shouldn't take any crap but I kinda deserve some of it..

[eleelove]

your just being an idiot! "oh yeah! Once we go all sexist on her, we'll get her in bed asap!"

F*ck you! I feel bad for whoever your with if your relationships are like you describe

[noobseaplenty]

Nice ASSumption, but what I promote is doing the complete opposite and treating a woman like you would treat you male friend. Most guys put up with so much bitching from women that they would never ever put up from a guy, I'm talking about eqaulity here, and my relationships are incredible thank you for asking, if my attitude is turning away morons like you then I'm doing my job

[Hades]

Sounds like she has one massive, all consuming ego. Move on, man.