I want to talk to him everyday but I don't want to seem clingy?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy very much and we a a really early stage of dating . I feel like I want to talk to him everyday , I just think aabout him allot and miss him on days we don't talk

but I'm scared he will think I'm clingy if I called everyday ?

would you think that's clingy ?

[XRabbitHeartX]

It's called self control. And you should start to practice that otherwise you are going to end up with a broken heart. Clingy girls, clingy guys...it's a complete turn off. It's natural and normal to want to talk to him all the time but if you are going to overdo you may make the spark go out quicker. Calling him every day is not clingy per say, but it is a bit too much. Rather just send him a text if you have to. And remember that communication should also come from his side. If you are the one that keeps calling and texting first you're setting yourself up for disaster. He should also contact you first every now and then to show that he still cares about you and wants to talk to you. He may end up taking you for granted as well.

[Stacyzee]

Yes, he probably would.

Its all way too early for this...you don't want to come off too strong.

Just send him occcasional messages like,

"missing you..." or

"thinking of you..." to show him that he is on your mind.

Has your relationship progresses, speaking everyday will come.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, probably.

The thing is, I think under18 year olds expect a certain amount of clingyness in their relationships.

Yes, it's true that usually one person is more clingy than the other would like, and it usually leads ot break up.

But we learn from these things.

I'd suggest calling him a little less often than you'd like, and at least give him the impression that you'd like to talk to him a lot, and all of that. Give him the "I like you" part of being clingy, without the constant never-ending-contact annoying part of being clingy. Try to find that happy balance.

[Asker]

yeah by the way I'm turning 18 in a month :D , I hate that under 18 year old thing , makes you think I'm a 14 year old lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well to me, you're all kids... but I know what you mean.

[BCRanger10]

It's fine if you want to talk to a guy frequently, but he does need breathing space, especially at your age, so yes, he probably would think you're clingy. Your lives will still go on as normal. You will still have friends, family, jobs, classes, all sorts of other stuff. You will each need some space every now and then.