I didn't respond. And later told her to f*** off the next day over the phone. I was kept in the dark about this the whole time, while even hanging out with the guy. I felt like this should of been disclosed so much earlier. I find it very weird and strange regardless of when she told me but really? I don't think any romantic feelings are there but I can't imagine living with an ex whom I've had sex with. And then claiming them as "my best friend". The text while I was at work was very immature. I had just told her an ex of mine tried to contact me a few days before too.
Should I listen to her? I am curious as to why it was a secret to begin with. Or should I not give her any more chances? I was really into her before this all went down. I want to make things work but don't know if it's even worth it. What would you do if you were really into your current boyfriend/girlfriend and this happened?
I guess this is just really complicated. I will be taking a break and letting things cool off before doing anything. I hope she does the same and maybe we can someday come to a resolution on the situation. If not, I will be getting on with my life regardless.
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