Is my girlfriend still attached to her ex?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend treats me disrespectfully and when I ask her friends about how she treated her ex they say that she was never like that and they found it weird that she does this to me even though I treat her nicely.. she mentions her ex and compares him to me every time we fight (btw she has been picking fights all the time) (We've been together for 2 months).. when I say "he treated you like sh*t he even cheated on you, and you still mention him do you still love him" she says no but then she even defends him.. I'm starting to have doubts about if her love for me.. should I leave her? or should I try to put her feelings back together and if so.. how can I get her to be re-attracted to me?

[Avicenna]

If a girlfriend treats you badly like that, you should break up with her. Your efforts will likely be futile if you try to get her to do what she should have been doing in the first place.

[Asker]

Isn't there a way that I can get her to just calm down and be respectful? or does that mean that she just doesn't have feelings for me because I think that if a girl has feelings for a guy she will automatically respect him.

[Iron_Man]

Why are you allowing this disrespect. It only gets worse as the years go by. Put your foot down and if you dont see serious changes by June 15 move on

[Asker]

Every time I try to put my foot down and even when I try to ask her nicely to stop being disrespectful, she just acts stubborn as if she did nothing wrong, then walks away, hangs up, etc...
On the other hand she tries to point out every minor mistake that I do and acts upon it.

[Iron_Man]

That's typical bad attitude behavior that dont want to be held accountable for their actions and find things to throw back in your face so you'll stop bothering them about it. Why stay In a relationship like that? Its bad for you to be disrespected

[Asker]

I will most likely take your advice.. I shouldn't have let her walk all over me for the sake of "love" I do need to put my foot down.

[Iron_Man]

Good Idea. Find yourself a new girlfriend one that appreciates and respects you and brings something to the table

[Jojojojojojojo]

Huh. Her ex cheated on her but she still likes him? compared what? Appearance?

[Asker]

She compares looks and behaviour

[BillysBabe]

The fact she treats you bad is reason enough to dump her

[Cryptic-Game]

It sounds like she is. You should be worried.

[Asker]

Unfortunately I am already worried and overthinking about this.